
07/04/2025
The quiet roommate you didn’t invite.
Resentment is one of those sneaky relationship weeds that starts small but can strangle connection over time if left unchecked.
It’s not loud. It doesn’t throw tantrums.
But it moves in quietly, eats your leftovers, and gives you the silent treatment from across the emotional hallway.
Resentment shows up when the things we never said start piling up. When one partner feels like they’re doing it all, and the other just thinks everything’s fine.
When independence starts looking like emotional distance—and togetherness feels like being swallowed whole.
Here’s what’s real: the problem isn’t you or them. It’s the pattern.
💭 What if you could name that pattern without blame?
💭 What if there was a way to hold on to yourself and each other?
✨ I’m hosting a FREE webinar on July 17th called
“Balancing Independence & Togetherness in Marriage”
Save your seat right here: www.raicoaching.com
Let’s work on kicking that “quiet roommate” out—together.
Just for kicks….
Drop a ‘🙋♀️’ if you’ve had this ‘roommate’ hanging around.