
07/21/2025
The word VALIDATE has gotten a lot of air time in the past few years. It's therapy speak for, "I want to feel heard."
When I help couples or individuals in therapy, it is not uncommon for me to be met with resistance when I encourage my clients to practice validating their child or their partner. They often think that I am asking them to agree with something the whole-heartedly do not agree with. That's not at all what I'm asking of you.
Validating someone’s experience as worthy of regard is materially different from affirming it as the only truth. Validation is a key skill to help break down barriers in communication, especially on matters that seem to get us gridlocked. Validating vs. affirming: two crucial concepts in building better relationships. Learn the distinctions and enhance your emotional intelligence.
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