Communication Jon with Dr. Jon Dabach

09/24/2025

Your words might say I love you, but your body might be saying I am tired, worried, or checked out. In this video I explain how subtle posture and presence cues can either calm your home or keep your marriage on edge. You will learn practical fixes you can use the moment you walk through the door so your wife feels your confidence and your care without you saying a thing.

If you want a fast path to better connection, start with the signals you are sending before you speak. Watch the full video here.

👉 https://youtu.be/viUsOrsO5Wo

09/23/2025

One of the hardest things to face in a marriage is when your wife stops seeing you as a man. This isn’t something you can ignore or hope will fade away on its own. When it happens, the polarity shifts, the respect disappears, and you’re left with a relationship that feels more like roommates or adversaries than husband and wife. In this video, I break down the three main reasons this happens and what you can do about it.

If your wife feels distant, resentful, or disconnected, this video could give you the insight you need to change the way she sees you. Don’t wait until the damage is too deep to repair. Watch the full video here:

👉 https://youtu.be/_JHcxuxUBIw

09/22/2025

7 Unwritten Rules Every Wife Should Know if She Wants Lasting Love
(From a counsellor who’s helped save 3,000+ marriages)

When a woman learns how to show up differently, set boundaries, and communicate her needs with the right tools... something shifts. The dynamic changes. The marriage changes. And he starts showing up in ways you’ve been waiting for.

That’s what we practice inside my private community for women who are working to improve their marriages.Comment “Connection” below, and I’ll personally send you the details.

09/22/2025

09/22/2025

If you feel like your wife is always angry at you, the answer isn’t to shrug it off or hope it goes away. There are specific reasons that anger shows up in marriage, and until you see them clearly, the cycle will keep repeating. I’ve spent over a decade helping couples identify these patterns, and in this video I’ll walk you through the biggest causes of that anger so you can finally see what’s really going on.

Most men guess wrong about why their wife is upset, which makes things even worse. Once you understand the actual reasons, you’ll know how to respond in ways that build connection instead of adding fuel to the fire. Watch the full breakdown here:

👉 https://youtu.be/5qW6Rj5c4Oo

09/19/2025

Most men over 40 feel like their marriage is stuck in a rut. The affection fades, the conflict rises, and it becomes harder to communicate. But here’s the truth: strong men who enjoy lasting, fulfilling marriages do things differently.

They know how to build a full life outside of their marriage so they don’t crush their wives with expectations. They create a clear vision for the relationship they want and lead toward it with purpose. And they know how to open up in ways that make their wives feel safe and connected rather than burdened.

If you want to know what these habits are and how to apply them in your own marriage, watch this video. It might be the wake up call your relationship needs.

👉 https://youtu.be/nV9zo7vIVs4

09/18/2025

If your wife has gone cold in the bedroom, the problem is not just about s*x. It usually comes down to how intimacy is initiated, whether she feels emotionally engaged with you, and how much stress and overwhelm she is carrying. When these three things are ignored, attraction fades, and what was once passionate becomes routine or disappears altogether.
In this video I break down exactly why these problems happen and what you can do to turn things around. If you want to stop the cycle of rejection and disconnection and bring passion back into your marriage, this is the one to watch.

👉 https://youtu.be/svMuXApvmfU

09/17/2025

Negativity is the silent killer of marriage. It is not infidelity, it is not bills, and it is not parenting disagreements. The constant drip of complaints, criticism, and pessimism can drain the life out of your relationship faster than almost anything else.

Your wife wants to feel safe, inspired, and connected to you. But if you are walking around like Eeyore, weighed down by every problem and projecting it onto her, she will shut down. The truth is, fixing negativity is your job. It is not about pretending everything is perfect. It is about learning how to share struggles in a contained and honest way while still carrying yourself with confidence and direction.

In this video I explain why negativity destroys attraction and how you can replace it with habits that bring back intimacy and respect. If you are serious about changing the energy in your marriage, this is a must watch.

👉 https://youtu.be/d_Z_nfM2BRk

09/16/2025

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09/16/2025

If you keep acting weak in your marriage, you will lose it. Weakness kills respect, attraction, and intimacy faster than anything else—and most men don’t even realize the ways they’re showing up weak every single day.

I just released a video breaking down six specific habits that slowly destroy your marriage and exactly what you need to do to turn it around before it’s too late.

👉 Watch it here: https://youtu.be/kLEP_FcjC8M

09/15/2025

When a woman starts pulling away, most men panic. They text more, talk more, chase harder. But all that chasing doesn’t bring her closer—it pushes her further away.

What actually works is the opposite. You have to stop bleeding energy and start holding your ground. Root yourself in calm, direction, and playful strength. That’s what flips the dynamic. That’s what makes her lean back in—not because of words, but because she feels the shift in your presence.

In this video, I break down the principle of polarity and show you real examples of men who went from desperate chasing to magnetic leadership in their marriages and relationships. If you’ve ever wondered why chasing never works, and how to actually hold yourself when she creates distance, this is the video you need to see.

Watch it here: https://youtu.be/HzHbsXLLF4M

09/12/2025

Couples break apart, even when they still love each other, and if you want to understand why, you’re going to want to read this.