12/30/2025
Time for an update on Kase.
First of we want to share all of the good news. Since Kase recovered from his surgery we have had a sense of normalcy we haven't had since this all began. Kase has been back in school, he's had friends over to play, he's been gaming as always. He's been happy and healthy all things considered.
We were gifted an absolutely wonderful experience from Tanganyika Wildlife park in Kansas where we were able to do meet and greets with some of Kase's favorite animals, including capybaras, penguins, and they even surprised us by letting us meet the baby hippo Mars, and feed and pet a rhino! It was incredible and we are so thankful for the opportunity.
We had a wonderful thanksgiving with all our family. And we had an amazing Christmas where the kids got absolutely spoiled rotten! We are thankful for all the support we have received this year, without it we would not have been able to make the memories we have and that is something we cannot thank everyone enough for.
Now we have an update on Kase's health. And unfortunately, it's not the update we want to share. On the 28th Kase started experiencing some numbness on the right side of his body. We took him into the ER in Kearney to have him evaluated, and they did an MRI. The MRI did show that there was regrowth, and swelling so they started him on a steroid and sent him home while we waited for our team in Omaha to review the scans. Yesterday we got a call that the tumor came back in the original location very quickly and very aggressively. It is already larger than his original tumor was. And not only that but it has also spread to multiple other locations in his brain. Due to the spread, it has now become inoperable and there is nothing more they can do for him. As of now the steroid has reduced the swelling and the numbness has resolved, and he is for the most part symptom free and happy. We will go to Omaha next Tuesday to have him evaluated one more time, and Jack and I will then meet with the palliative care team to help us get set up with hospice so we can keep him at home where he will hopefully be more comfortable. They can't give us a definitive timeline, but due to how aggressively it came back and the fact that there is now multiple tumors they are guessing between a few weeks and a couple months.
This is obviously devastating news for our family. And we absolutely understand that people want to support us and have a chance to see Kase. However, Jack and I do request that you let us spend this time together as a family. We do not want to offend anyone or come off rude, we absolutely could not have survived this long or be able to now consider Jack staying home with us during this time without the support we have received. But Kase is only 9, he understands as well as a child his age can, but we have not told him the severity of this last update. We do not want to scare him more than necessary. We are afraid if people start to flood in to visit him he will start to get concerned. So we hope everyone understands that we are just trying to protect him and our time as a family right now. And we kindly ask if you happen to see us out and about that nothing is mentioned to Kase and everything is as normal as possible. Again, we cannot thank everyone enough for the way you have surrounded us with love and support this past year. The toys and gifts for the kids have helped keep a smile on their faces during the hard times, the experiences we have been gifted helped create lasting memories, and the financial support not only helped us with bills while Jack had missed so much work, but has also given us the chance to take vacations and make so many other memories.
We will try to keep everyone updated as time goes on as best as we can.