08/06/2025
“when can I quit breastfeeding and still be a good mom?”
That’s what I googled, 3.5 weeks in. I was excited to nurse my baby, and I knew it would be hard, so I prepped and took classes and hired a peer counselor to come to my house and help me, and it was still hard. My IBCLCs recommended we have oral ties released on our baby, and through cracked and bleeding ni***es, and his sore newly revised mouth, I was hopeful our breastfeeding journey would change for the better.
I had a cesarean unplanned, and I had already been back to work almost 2 weeks, and it was so so so hard, and I was exhausted. The baby preferred the bottle, and we were pouring formula down his throat constantly, trying to regain the weight he’d lost, while I was trying to get my milk supply up. So I googled, “when can I quit breastfeeding and still be a good mom?”
I found an infographic from Australia that listed the benefits a baby gets from every drop of human milk he takes in, and the benefits to the lactating person. This very non-judgmental approach made me feel like an amazing mom, and I was proud of our short lactation journey, and shamelessly buttoned up my shirt and quit breastfeeding.
For the first time ever, I proudly present this picture of my pumped milk, from July 1, 2016, 2 weeks and 5 days into my breastfeeding journey, 8 days before I quit. This was the most I ever pumped in one session, after a week of “triple feeding” (nurse, feed baby with bottle, then pump, around the clock). Here’s to all the folks feeding babies with their bodies, through all the blood, sweat, tears, ni**le cream, donor milk, baby formula, and that weird maple syrup smell (IYKYK). How ever your journey goes, you’re killing it and you’re doing a fantastic job!! Every journey is different and beautiful and I celebrate every moment and every drop with you!
HAPPY BREASTFEEDING WEEK!!!!!! 🥳🥳🥳