01/08/2026
If midlife weight gain were just about “calories in, calories out” you’d already have it handled.
Weight gain in perimenopause and menopause is biology, not discipline. But thankfully, biology has solutions.
When someone tells you to “just eat less and move more”, what they’re revealing is a lack of understanding of midlife physiology. The math problem they were taught stops working when hormones change, and dieting harder often makes things worse!
Your weight gain isn’t due to laziness or willpower, your body is responding exactly how midlife biology tells it to. Falling estrogen leads to increased insulin resistance, poor sleep causing cortisol spikes, muscle loss slows metabolism, and thyroid conversion gets sluggish. These things need to be addressed before weight loss makes sense.
What helps is of course hormones as needed, but also prioritizing sleep, eating whole, balanced meals, strength training, assessing nutrients, and breaking the chronic restriction cycles. Real menopause care is about your whole being, not outdated, hard and fast rules.
What’s one piece of advice you tried that has changed your midlife experience for the better?
Women’s Health Nurse Practitioner & Certified Menopause Practitioner
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