12/07/2024
In your WLS journey it may be necessary to burn the bridge to your old life. Having a path back to your old habits, lifestyle , and even relationships that did not serve your health & fitness may be holding you back from achieving your goals and changing the direction of your health. One way to ensure your success is to burn the bridge....don't give yourself an option. This journey is hard, anyone that told you that you took the easy way out has no clue the Physical & Mental struggles you have endured in your WLS journey.
During that first 12 -18 months post op that it took you to reach your goal weight, you lost a lot of fat but you also lost muscle. If you lifted heavy consistently and kept your protein at 1g per Lb of Goal weight muscle loss may not be dramatic, but you still lost some. This is where comments from others about you being too "skinny" comes into play. Muscle gives your body shape. After you reach your goal weight is when you really need to focus on rebuilding muscle, and this takes consistent weight training and higher calories including Carbohydrates. This is most likely a subject your Bariatric Team will not discuss with you.
This is not easy, you have to fight for it. This is where eating in a way that is not sustainable long term comes in. You may need to eat more than you are comfortable with to build muscle. It can be scary because of the possibility of regain, but you can do it in cycles to get the desired results without weight gain, and yes this is easier for men. As you can see from my meal prep posts I generally eat more volume than most bariatric patients ( even in a deficit). I try to show you the other side of the WLS journey. Eating 1000-1200 calories for the rest of your life may not be sustainable to maintain your weight loss for many reasons.
Not everything is meant to be sustainable. Are you fighting for your goals or are you hoping your bariatric surgery is going to magically solve your weight issues? Bariatric Surgery is a tool in your WLS Journey not a long term solution if you want to be strong & fit.