Cultured Peace Services

07/06/2025

✨ 10 Reasons Why You Deserve the Love You Give ✨

1️⃣ You hold space for others when they need it most. You deserve someone who holds space for you too.

2️⃣ You pour light into dark places. That same light should find its way back to you.

3️⃣ You listen deeply. Your voice deserves to be heard in return.

4️⃣ You forgive when it’s hard and love when it’s easier to walk away. You deserve love that stays.

5️⃣ You encourage others to grow. You deserve someone who believes in your growth too.

6️⃣ You love without conditions. You deserve love that feels unconditional too.

7️⃣ You celebrate others’ wins like they’re your own. You deserve people who celebrate you just as loudly.

8️⃣ You stay kind even when you’re hurting. You deserve kindness on your hard days too.

9️⃣ You see the good in people. You deserve someone who sees the good in you — always.

🔟 You are human — imperfect and worthy — just as you are. You don’t have to earn the love you so freely give.

💛 You are deserving. Always.

06/20/2025

Here are 10 powerful and soul-protecting reasons why you should not take that person back into your life—especially if they were toxic, manipulative, or narcissistic. This is for anyone struggling with the temptation to return to what's familiar but harmful.

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10 Reasons to NOT Take That Person Back in Your Life 🚫🧠💔

1. They Haven’t Changed—They Just Miss Your Supply

> Missing you isn’t the same as respecting you. Many come back for control, comfort, or ego—not love or growth.

2. You’re Healing, They’re Repeating

> While you’ve been doing inner work, they’ve been recycling old patterns. Don't let their lack of growth undo your progress.

3. Apologies Without Actions Are Manipulations

> Words are cheap. If they’re all talk and no consistent action, it’s a trap dressed in charm.

4. You’re Not Who You Were When You Left

> You’ve evolved. Don’t shrink yourself to fit back into a space you had to grow out of.

5. Peace > Potential

> Stop falling for “what could be” and remember “what actually was.” Potential doesn’t pay the price your peace did.

6. God Already Showed You Who They Are

> When someone shows you the same lesson over and over, believe it. God reveals, not to tease, but to teach.

7. They Were a Lesson, Not a Lifelong Assignment

> Some people are seasonal. Keeping them longer than intended turns a lesson into a life sentence.

8. Your Boundaries Deserve to Be Honored

> If they disregarded your voice, needs, or worth once, they’re likely to do it again. Protect your boundaries like sacred ground.

9. Your Future Requires Closure, Not Chaos

> God is trying to give you more—but you have to release what’s blocking the blessing. That person may be the very delay.

10. Loving Them Doesn’t Mean You Must Reinvite Them

> Forgiveness is for your peace, not their access. You can love someone from a distance and still choose yourself.

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💡 Final Truth:
“Don't reopen the door God helped you close just because you're lonely, nostalgic, or tired. Your destiny is forward, not back.”

06/19/2025

Here are 10 thought-provoking and spiritual reasons why God may have allowed you to cross paths—or even be in a relationship—with a narcissist. These insights are not to justify abuse, but to shed light on possible deeper meanings in your healing and growth journey:

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10 Reasons Why God Placed You With That Narcissist 🪑🚩🙌🏾

1. To Awaken You Spiritually

> That chaos forced you to seek God on a deeper level. The narcissist’s behavior may have been the wake-up call that pushed you toward your spiritual awakening and self-discovery.

2. To Reveal Unhealed Wounds

> Narcissists often mirror back the parts of us that need healing—childhood trauma, codependency, or lack of self-worth. Their presence shines a light on hidden pain.

3. To Teach You Boundaries

> Being with a narcissist teaches you how to say “no,” how to recognize manipulation, and how to honor your energy. You learn to protect your peace.

4. To Break Generational Cycles

> You may have been the chosen one to end patterns of emotional neglect, abuse, or enabling that have been in your family for generations.

5. To Strengthen Your Discernment

> You learn the difference between charm and character. God sharpens your discernment so you can spot falsehood with spiritual eyes, not just emotional ones.

6. To Prepare You for Purpose

> Your pain becomes part of your testimony. Your story could help others heal, and God may use you to speak life into those still in toxic situations.

7. To Remind You of Your Worth

> Eventually, the relationship shows you just how much you deserve. That contrast helps you reclaim your identity in Christ and your divine value.

8. To Cultivate Empathy, Not Bitterness

> God doesn’t want you to become hard; He wants you to be wise. You learn to see people’s brokenness while not tolerating their harm.

9. To Push You Into Destiny

> Sometimes, toxic relationships push you out of complacency. They force you to take bold steps—whether it's leaving, rebuilding, or redefining yourself.

10. To Prove God’s Power to Restore

> Even after betrayal, manipulation, or loss, God shows up as healer, provider, and restorer. He turns ashes into beauty and testimonies into triumph.

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🌱 Reminder: You were never meant to stay in destruction. God allows certain storms so you can grow strong, not stay stuck.

04/27/2023

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04/24/2023

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04/13/2023

All praises to the child of Yemoja for this beautiful Doula Retreat! She had doulas from all the East from NY , TN, NC, And Me who covers Multiple Territories. I am more than honored to share the room!

04/11/2023

Black Maternal Health Week 2023 is officially here! 🎉 As the founders of , The Black Mamas Matter Alliance is so excited to kick off this annual campaign for a sixth year in a row!

We have a week filled with campaigns and events aimed at uplifting and centering Black Mamas voices to advance Black Maternal Health Rights and Justice, and invite you to engage with us throughout the week by using the hashtag . Engage with us! blackmamasmatter.org/BMHW

We are thrilled to reveal the official​ theme for Black Maternal Health Week 2023 ( ):​ “Our Bodies Belong to Us: Restoring Black Autonomy and Joy!” ​In light of the steadily […]

04/11/2023

A Year Ago I posted a Van. This Year I got the RV travel trailer! If that's not Yah Plan than idk what is!!! Please donate to the actual footwork of Wellness!!! Its a 3k project!
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04/08/2023

At this Amazing Doula Retreat!! Restoring for the next batch of babies!!

04/07/2023

As a Doula zi support the partner of a father and mother and I allow the father to catch his creation! I'm in the tyedye cap!! #

03/21/2023

When I say Travel Doula, This is what it looks like. Crowning Jewels Int'l heading to the house for a freebirth

03/15/2023

Childbirth Education Class is mandatory in my tribe. Let's all learn and grow together 🤗