11/13/2023
Is anyone else feeling the impending stress of the holidays? If you nodded yes, read more below 👇🏼..........
Holidays are supposed to be a joyous time. Time spent with friends and family sharing in the spirit of the holiday. However, our daily stresses play into the typical holiday stress this time of year. We feel the need to stretch out our paychecks to cover gifts that we need to show others that we love or appreciate them. Pretending to be the perfect family when your marriage is on the brink of divorce. Or maybe you spread yourself too thin amidst parties, holiday outings, and family obligations and are reaching your boiling point. Have I hit any bells for you? Well here are 3 areas that can assist in feeling less stress.
1. Getting adequate sleep. Lack of sleep plus increased stress do not bode well for anyone. These two aspects can lead to an increase in depression/anxiety. Pencil in 15-30 minutes of quiet time to allow for personal meditation, go for a walk, listen to music, read a book -- do something just for you. Try to go to bed earlier to get an extra hour of sleep.
2. Don't take on too much. If you are the type of person who cannot say "no" or are a people-pleaser but feel increased stress this time of year; this portion is for you. If you spread yourself too thin you are not helping anyone, including yourself. If you feel yourself to be overwhelmed by numerous events, outings, and parties list them out and identify the ones that bring you the most joy and peace.
3. Surround yourself with loved ones. This step is probably the most difficult for individuals to face. I want to address that a "loved one" does not need to be blood. This can simply be someone who cares for you genuinely. Sometimes being with family can increase stress, so establish boundaries and focus on spending time with those who love, respect, and care for you and your mental health.
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