01/21/2026
If thinking alone could heal you, you’d be whole by now.
Most of us have been taught to approach healing from the top down: change your thoughts, manage your behaviors, reframe the story, stay positive, power through. And to be clear, approaches like CBT and DBT can be incredibly helpful. They give structure. Language. Tools. Perspective.
But there’s a piece that often gets left out…
Your nervous system doesn’t speak in sentences.
It speaks in signals.
Tight jaw. Shallow breath. Racing heart. Heavy chest. Gut knots. Restlessness. Numbness. That sudden urge to bolt, shut down, or reach for relief.
Those cues usually show up before your mind can explain what’s happening. Which means that for many people, insight isn’t the problem, and willpower isn’t the answer. The missing piece is learning to work bottom up: through the body, through sensation, through patterns that live beneath conscious thought.
I just published a new blog that breaks this down in a simple (and slightly spicy) way, including why somatic therapy isn’t “new” at all… and how much opportunity you’re missing if you’ve only been trying to think your way to freedom.
If you’ve been doing all the “right” things and still feel stuck, you’re not broken.
You’re just working with half the equation.
The word is everywhere - but what does it mean?