06/25/2025
As a medium, a seer who connects earthbound souls with their departed loved ones in Spirit, I believe wholeheartedly in divine timing and that when our soul releases from this dense plane of existence, it is by design - already known and set in 'time' before arriving in this realm.
Yet, I still cringe when I hear or read people attempt to console the grieving with, “it was their time” or “they’re in a better place”. Trust me, although you mean well, chances are the person you believe you’re comforting with those words is likely cringing inside, too.
Instead, consider acknowledging their pain, holding a safe space for them to share their feelings, and expressing your sorrow for the passing of their loved one(s).
Grief has its own path, its own timeline. Most of us will grieve our departed loved ones for the rest of our own lives. We may heal, we may learn how to navigate life without them, but we never forget. We may move forward, we seldom move on.
I feel it is important to be compassionate and empathetic when we’re in the company of those deep in the throes of the grief process. Be mindful of your words. Do not assume that you understand what they’re going through. You don’t. Everyone’s grief is unique and deserves the space and respect to be wholly their own.
Many blessings,
Bliss
