Charlotte Etiquette by Mannerly

Charlotte Etiquette by Mannerly We teach manners and social skills in fun, relevant ways to new learners to seasoned professionals
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03/20/2026

The most important lessons we teach children aren’t memorized—they’re practiced.

How to look someone in the eye.
How to speak with clarity and kindness.
How to sit at the table with confidence.
How to make others feel comfortable and included.

These are the skills that shape how a child moves through the world—at school, in friendships, and one day, in their careers.

Our Mannerly elementary etiquette classes focus on building both confidence and consideration—because true manners are never about perfection, but about awareness of others.

Summer etiquette class registration is now open.

We would love to have your child join us.

Learn more and register at mannerly.com

03/20/2026

A beautiful afternoon in Charlotte.

Our recent adult dining etiquette class was a three-course instructional luncheon for business professionals—designed to bring clarity and confidence to the moments that matter most at the table.

We walked through each course together, covering everything from navigating a place setting with ease to handling conversation, pace, and presence in a professional dining setting.

Because the goal is never perfection—it’s ease. It’s knowing what to do so you can focus on the people around you.

These are the details that quietly shape first impressions, relationships, and opportunities.

If you’ve ever felt unsure at a business meal (or simply want to feel more confident), you’re exactly who this is for.

Join us for an upcoming class at Mannerly.com

03/20/2026

Not every moment is polished—and that’s exactly the point.

Etiquette isn’t about perfection. It’s about how you recover, how you carry yourself, and how you make others feel in the process.

A small mistake, handled with grace, often leaves a far better impression than trying to appear flawless.

At Mannerly, we teach modern manners for real life—including what to do after the blooper.

Learn more at Mannerly.com

There are a handful of moments in conversation that feel more difficult than they should—even for the most thoughtful pe...
03/19/2026

There are a handful of moments in conversation that feel more difficult than they should—even for the most thoughtful people.

Walking into a room where you know no one.
Sitting down next to someone new at dinner.
Feeling a conversation quietly stall.
Or wondering how to leave a conversation without appearing abrupt.

And increasingly, what do we do in these moments?

We reach for our phones.

I saw a sign this week that made me smile:
“I’m having people over to stare at their phones later if you want to come by.”

Uncomfortably accurate.

The truth is—these moments are not a sign of social awkwardness. They are simply moments that require a bit more awareness and quiet confidence.

In today’s essay, I’m sharing five of the most common conversation moments people quietly dread—and exactly how to navigate each one with confidence.

Read more on The Mannerly Edit

Mannerly.substack.com

With gratitude,
Elizabeth Anne Russell

03/19/2026

Bread & Butter Etiquette 101

One of the simplest ways to practice “others first” at the table:
offer the bread before serving yourself.

When your bread arrives:
• Place it on your bread plate (to your left)
• Tear off one bite-sized piece at a time
• Butter each piece just before eating—not the entire roll

It’s not about formality—
it’s about awareness, rhythm, and consideration for those around you.

These small details are what quietly set someone apart.

We teach these skills every day—from children learning their first table manners to adults refining their professional presence.

Learn more at mannerly.com

03/19/2026

One of the simplest—and most memorable—table manners:

Salt and pepper stay together.

When someone asks for one, pass both.

No need to ask, no need to separate them.

It’s a small gesture that shows thoughtfulness and ease at the table.

Modern etiquette thoughtfully taught - mannerly.com

03/19/2026

Oyster etiquette, simplified.

When served on the half shell, oysters are meant to be enjoyed whole—not cut. Hold the shell steady, loosen gently with your fork if needed, then bring the shell to your lips and sip (never slurp loudly).

Pause, savor, and enjoy.

Like so much of etiquette, it’s not about perfection—it’s about presence and consideration for those around you.

For more modern etiquette, dining skills, and confidence at the table, visit Mannerly.com 🦪

03/18/2026

Most professionals are never formally taught this—yet it quietly shapes every opportunity.

The way you enter a room.
How you introduce yourself.
The clarity of your communication.
Your presence at the table.

These are not small details. They are the signals others use to determine trust, leadership, and readiness.

At Mannerly, our Corporate Etiquette & Professional Presence programs are designed to refine the skills that accelerate careers—rooted in modern research, practiced with intention, and immediately applicable in today’s workplace.

Because it’s not just what you know.
It’s how you show up.

To learn more or bring a program to your organization:
Visit mannerly.com/corporate
or email info@mannerly.com

With so many spring events - Easter, Mother’s Day, Graduation - on the horizon, there is a lot of chatter about setting ...
03/17/2026

With so many spring events - Easter, Mother’s Day, Graduation - on the horizon, there is a lot of chatter about setting a beautiful spring table. For me, a beautiful table is not about impressing others, it’s about making those at my table feel considered and welcomed.

Here are three small details I love to include to create a more thoughtful table - anytime of the year:

• A proper place setting creates ease, not formality. Only set the table with dishes and utensils you plan to use for the meal.
• Place cards quietly say you belong here, and I love how it makes seating seamless.
• A simple question under the plate can encourage conversation and include everyone (all ages of deep thinkers and loud talkers) around the table.

I’ve included a few of my favorite conversation prompt questions and a proper place setting guide in my latest essay on The Mannerly Edit - mannerly.substack.com

With heartfelt gratitude,
Elizabeth Anne Russell

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