Judy Herman

Whether in the workplace, or in your home space, navigating relationships can be overwhelming! Find out how, every week on Better Relationships, Better Life.

🎙 Speaker, Counselor, & Retreat facilitator creating C.A.L.M.™ after the storm for healers, leaders, and seekers ready to rise above relationship drama for their better life! No one wants to feel like they’re walking on eggshells, or hoping that the other will magically improve. Learn to master the art of relationships, insights, attitudes, & effective communication for momentum and productivity. With high energy inspiration, my focus is changing complaints into cooperation at home & in your organization. I help gifted female leaders crack the clarity code of difficult relationships so they can live & lead with vibrant authenticity. Listen or watch weekly episodes of "Better Relationships, Better Life" podcast. I interview relationship experts with conversations about how to bring increased awareness & more transparent communications in any type of relationship, whether at our 9-to-5 jobs, or our 24/7 lives. Join us as I talk with courageous, seasoned relationship experts who can help you bring these tools to your office and family life. When harnessing the power of relationships, you will introduce positive momentum in your organization, marriage, friendships, and mentorships. https://www.judycounselor.com/podcast/

Judy K. Herman's book, "Beyond Messy Relationships: Divine Invitations To Your Authentic Self" is top 10 finalist for Author Academy Awards. It's available wherever books are sold in all formats. Services include:

1. Motivational Speaking; Panelist moderator; workshop presenter, & retreat facilitator https://www.judycounselor.com/judy-herman-professional-bio/media/

2. Counseling packages for focused momentum - https://www.judycounselor.com/fees/

3. Creative Connection Private Retreat - 2-night/3-day intensive that surpasses the effectiveness of traditional therapy. https://www.judycounselor.com/creative-connection-private-retreat/

4. "Show Up & Be You" Coaching program for entrepreneurial couples. Beginning with a half-day retreat, it expands a 9-month time frame providing healthy relationship skills and massive accountability. The first 12 weeks consists of weekly support followed by six monthly boosters. Here's three relationship principles to consider:

1. All relationships go through seasons of messiness.

2. Divine invitations come through those in-between spaces of our messes which give opportunities for positive change to happen.

3. We can know our authentic selves from the mirrors of our intimate relationships. Our tasks are to grow into our purpose through the "good, bad, and ugly" parts of our journey. We can come out the other side with vibrant authenticity. Take your free Relationship Stress Quiz: https://www.judycounselor.com

Order your author-signed copy of "Beyond Messy Relationships" https://www.judycounselor.com/product/premier-author-signed-single-book/

08/17/2025

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08/01/2025

💬 Ever wonder why relationships break down—even with good intentions?

Here’s the truth: Talking is actually the most dangerous thing a couple can do 😳…
That’s why I’m sharing something close to my heart 💖

🎬 The Heart of Dialogue is a brand-new documentary featuring my mentors, Harville & Helen. Their work in Imago Therapy has shaped my entire career and personal journey.

Chances are you already value deep connection and personal growth 🌱—this film will speak to you.

From the Emmy-nominated duo, Chris Brickler and Michael Romero, comes a powerful film about love, communication, AI and the future of dialogue. The film expl...

07/11/2025

Therapists, can I speak to your heart for a moment?

You’ve spent years helping others heal.

You’re skilled. Wise. Compassionate.

…but secretly wondering:

“Is there more for me beyond the therapy room?”

After my own journey—and turning 69—I’m shifting my work to support YOU.

✨ Transformational retreats designed for therapists who’ve walked away from toxic relationships and are ready to rise into their bigger purpose.

✨ A safe space to rediscover your vision, your voice, and your vitality.

If you’re a therapist who’s craving something deeper, let’s talk.

👉 Or take my new “Therapist Check-In Quiz” to see if toxic loyalty might be quietly holding you back.

You deserve transformation, too.

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Beyond Messy Relationships: Divine Invitations To Your Authentic Self

Let me tell you a quick story about when I received a call from a psychiatrist. Behind the closed door of my office, no one knew that my new husband had entered a season of psychosis. My client was in the waiting room, ready to see her wise professional counselor. But I was falling apart as a wife.

I covered red splotches on my face with make-up to appear focused, wise, and professional.

But in reality, I was struggling with isolation and trauma.

As the days unfolded, I was getting more and more anxious and fearful.

The bottom fell out from under me. I faced the fear of becoming a widow or a twice divorced relationship therapist. I began to lose trust in myself and credibility with my family. I doubted the feasibility of my private practice and limited income and energy.

Which meant I couldn't take significant time away from my counseling office. Yet I needed to nurture my soul and get perspective. I worried about my dependency on private practice income alone.

As you can imagine, I was in bad shape and desperate. But I wasn't ready to give up on my dream of writing a book. Nor could I abandon this journey of living my authentic self.

Over time, I discovered the value of nurturing relationships with successful entrepreneurs. They helped me think outside my therapist mindset and self-limiting beliefs.

That's when things began to change!

I learned out how to:

- Write a compelling memoir that became top 10 finalist for Author Academy Awards

- Plan my next level of growth by participating in a master mind group

- Have courage to model transformation for my clients, readers, and audiences.

Because of my continued growth and participation in master mind groups, I learned to:

- Attract clients who already "know, like, and trust me."

- Make life-giving differences with readers and clients on the other side of the world.

- Experience transformation in my family relationships.

Now I'm living my dream of being on this journey of vibrant authenticity. I don't need to worry about isolation or imposter syndrome.

And that's why I'm so passionate about offering Professional Services. They include counseling, coaching, mastermind groups, and Keynote Presentations. And I love helping other leaders serve clients from a place of vibrant authenticity.