29/05/2023
It can feel so counterintuitive to let ourself feel all the discomfort we otherwise work hard to avoid! One way I like to do this is to locate where in my body the feeling is and describe it like I am a curious scientist discovering this object for the first time. I imagine drawing a line around the feeling and observing its shape, color, texture, weight, temperature, and movement. This allows me to come into contact with the feeling in a way that feels more manageable. And, I often notice that while it is difficult to observe my feelings at first, the intensity of it lessens as I let myself sit with it.
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