10/07/2025
The urge to fix is powerful, but often, it’s a reflection of our own discomfort. We try to “solve” someone’s pain because we’re not comfortable sitting in the messy, unresolved feelings with them.
But when you try to fix, you unintentionally send the message: “Your experience is too much for me, and I need you to be okay.”
What people need most isn’t a strategy guide, but a safe space. They need to hear: “I see you, and what you’re going through is valid.”
This carousel has three simple, high-impact phrases you can use today to shift from being a “fixer” to a true validator.
Swipe through, save this for the next time a loved one opens up, and remind yourself: You don’t have to have the answers to be helpful. You just have to be present.
Which phrase feels most impactful to you? Let us know below. 👇
⚠️ Reminder: This content is for educational purposes and is not a substitute for therapy.