EndoDad76, Coeur d'Alene, ID (2026)

05/01/2026

Some guys think building a life means becoming louder, colder, and harder to question.

That’s where this episode goes.

Build Your Life, But Don’t Lose Your Soul is about ambition, power, men, women, leadership, ego, and what happens when people confuse contempt with strength.

And yes, it’s posting late because Riverside went down, the NHL playoffs were on, and apparently I’m still allowed to be a human being with distractions.

But this one matters.

I’m not coming at this as some perfect guy with all the answers. I’ve missed things. I’ve moved too fast. I’ve talked when I should have listened. I’m still learning too.

But we need to say this out loud:

Don’t build a life people have to recover from.

Don’t make women carry the cost of your ambition.

Don’t call it leadership when people are afraid to tell you the truth.

Watch here: https://youtu.be/zN-Z1UPRvgA

If this one hits, send it to someone who needs the mirror.

Still here. Still trying.

05/01/2026

Some guys build a life and become harder to be around.

That’s the episode.

And yes, it’s posting late because Riverside went down right when I was ready to record, and also because the NHL playoffs exist and apparently I am still a person with priorities.

Technology picked a fight. Hockey distracted me. We moved on.

But honestly, maybe this one needed the delay.

Because this episode is about what happens when ambition loses its soul.

Build the thing. Chase the dream. Get healthy. Make the money. Start over if you need to.

But if success turns you into the person everyone has to walk carefully around, you didn’t win.

You became the problem with better lighting.

This week on Still Here, Still Trying, I’m talking about men, power, women, leadership, ego, and the ugly way people confuse contempt with strength.

And I’m not saying this as some perfect guy. I’ve missed things. I’ve moved too fast. I’ve talked when I should have listened. I’m in this too.

But we need to say it plainly:

Don’t build a life people have to recover from.

Don’t make women carry the cost of your ambition.

Don’t call it leadership when people are scared to tell you the truth.

Build Your Life, But Don’t Lose Your Soul is out now.

Late, but worth it.

Send it to someone who needs the mirror.

https://open.spotify.com/episode/1Xu4BxjyS8UKynqHqR0SIa?si=820eca2af25f4c88

04/27/2026

Some of you are exhausted because you keep treating everyone else’s chaos like it’s your assignment.

Other people’s panic.

Other people’s opinions.

Other people’s drama.

Other people’s expectations.

At some point, you have to decide what gets access to your peace.

I’m saying that to myself too.

I care deeply. I want to help. I want to fix things. I want to make the room better. I want to hold the line and keep everyone moving.

But there’s a point where your body starts telling the truth before your mouth does.

The tight chest.

The short fuse.

The tired you can’t sleep off.

The feeling that one more thing might send you over the edge.

That’s usually the sign.

You don’t need more noise.

You need a boundary.

You don’t have to answer every fire alarm.

You don’t have to absorb every mood in the room.

You don’t have to match chaos with chaos.

You can pause.

You can breathe.

You can choose steady.

This week, protect your peace like it actually matters.

Because it does.

What’s one thing you need to stop carrying this week?

Name it in the comments. I’m asking for real. Sometimes saying it out loud is where the weight starts to move.

04/24/2026

Healing does not happen alone.

I know we like to pretend we can tough our way through everything. Keep moving. Keep smiling. Keep answering the emails. Keep showing up like nothing hurts.

But at some point, most of us need someone to stand beside us and say, “I’m here. You don’t have to carry this by yourself.”

That matters.

A text matters.

A ride matters.

A meal matters.

Sitting quietly with someone matters.

Listening without trying to fix every broken thing matters.

There are people all around us who are trying to heal from something. Grief. Burnout. illness. Disappointment. Anxiety. A life that did not go the way they thought it would. Some of them will say it out loud. A lot of them won’t.

So pay attention.

Check on your people.

Let yourself be checked on too.

We were never meant to white-knuckle our way through life alone.

Heal together. That is where the real work starts.

04/24/2026

Truth still matters.

Even when it’s uncomfortable.

Even when people would rather spin it, soften it, bury it, or turn it into something easier to defend.

I think a lot of us are tired because we’re living in a world where everything gets argued into fog. You can say something honest and before you know it, people are dissecting the tone, questioning the motive, picking sides, and missing the point.

But truth still matters.

The truth about what people are going through.

The truth about what hurts.

The truth about what needs to change.

The truth about who gets left out, who gets ignored, who gets talked over, and who has been carrying too much for too long.

I don’t need truth to be cruel. I don’t need it used like a weapon. I think truth needs kindness with it, or people stop being able to hear it.

But I also don’t want a world where we’re so afraid of hard conversations that we settle for comfortable lies.

Tell the truth.

With care.
With courage.
With enough humility to listen when someone else tells theirs too.

Truth still matters.

04/09/2026

I keep coming back to this:

What people need most right now is to be heard.

Not fixed.
Not rushed.
Not talked over.
Heard.

The world feels loud. People are tired. A lot of us are carrying more than we are saying out loud, and after a while that starts to do something to you. You edit yourself. You make the story smaller. You act like you’re fine because it feels easier than trying to explain what is really going on.

This clip is from my new episode of Still Here, Still Trying called What People Need Most Right Now.

If this hits home, drop a 🙌 in the comments.

And send it to somebody who might need to hear this today.

EmotionalHealing

04/05/2026

Easter doesn’t always feel like a celebration when you’re living with chronic pain.

For a lot of people in this community, today looks like managing symptoms, pushing through fatigue, and trying to be present while your body is doing its own thing. That’s real, and it matters.

But Easter still carries something worth holding onto. The idea that even after long stretches of pain, frustration, and being dismissed, there is still space for renewal. Sometimes that renewal is small. Getting out in the sun for a few minutes. A good hour in the day. A moment where your body gives you a little break.

If today is a hard day, you’re not alone in that. If today has a few good moments in it, hold onto them.

You are seen. You are believed. And you’re still here, still fighting.

Happy Easter and Stay Strong My Friends

04/04/2026

People see the showing up.
They don’t see what it costs.

If you’re living this, I see you.
If you love someone who is, believe them.

This is strength. Quiet, relentless, every single day.

04/04/2026

Something’s off right now. You can feel it.

People are shorter. Quicker to react. Faster to judge.
We jump to conclusions like we know the whole story.

We don’t.

Most people you cross paths with today are carrying something you’ll never see.
Stress. Pain. Fear. Exhaustion. Stuff they don’t talk about because they still have to function.

And instead of making it lighter, we pile on.

We don’t need more opinions right now.
We don’t need more outrage.

We need people who choose to slow down.
Who choose to listen.
Who choose to treat someone like a human being before anything else.

Kindness isn’t soft. It takes effort. It takes awareness. It takes restraint when it would be easier to fire back.

Be that person.

Because you might be the difference between someone holding it together and falling apart today.

04/04/2026

Most people will never see the full picture.

They’ll see you smiling.
They’ll see you functioning.
They’ll assume you’re fine.

They won’t see what it took to get out the door.
They won’t feel what your body is carrying.
They won’t understand the math you’re doing all day just to keep going.

That doesn’t make it less real.
That doesn’t make it less hard.

So give people more grace than you think they need.
And if you’re the one holding it together today, that counts more than you think.

04/04/2026

You’re surrounded by people carrying more than you can see.

They’re smiling in conversations.
They’re getting through meetings.
They’re showing up for their families.

And most of the time, nobody knows what it cost them to be there.

Pay attention to that.
Give people more grace than you think they need.
And if you’re the one pushing through it today, I see you.

Keep going.

04/04/2026

People assume strength looks loud.
It doesn’t.

Sometimes it looks like someone smiling through a conversation while their body is screaming.
Sometimes it looks like showing up to work, to family, to life, and no one in the room has any idea what it took to be there.

There are people around you right now carrying more than you can see.
Not asking for attention. Not making it about them. Just doing their best to keep going.

Pay attention to that.
Respect it when you see it.
And if you’re the one living it, you’re stronger than most people will ever understand.

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