11/18/2025
I’ve been a little quiet lately… because honestly, I’ve been struggling with something.
Not with the kids — but with figuring out what this space is supposed to be.
I want to advocate.
I want to encourage people to step into foster care and adoption.
I want to help others understand genetic differences and invisible challenges.
And at the same time… I want to be transparent about the hard days, the medical stuff, the appointments, the overwhelm, and the reality behind the highlight reel.
And maybe those things can go together.
Maybe advocacy is stronger when people see the whole picture — the beautiful parts and the messy ones.
So I’m asking you…
What do you come here for?
Do you want the advocacy?
Do you want the transparency?
Do you want both?
I’m figuring this out in real time — and bringing you with me feels like the right next step. 💜