Thirteen & Finn Doula Services

Thirteen & Finn Doula Services šŸ‘¶šŸ¾Certified Birth Doula 🧠HypnoBirthing educator šŸ“øBirth PhotographeršŸ¤°šŸ»For all Birthing Bodies

One month ago we met.The birth on paper was very similar to the others.But this one was different.Harder, but still peac...
07/11/2025

One month ago we met.
The birth on paper was very similar to the others.
But this one was different.
Harder, but still peaceful.
I never felt fully surrendered.
Like I relaxed because I knew in my logical brain it would make it ā€œeasierā€ but I didn’t exhale the entire time.
The entire 10 months.
I couldn’t.
Holding my breath somehow meant you were safe.
And then you were here and you scream and answered so many prayers in an instant.
But your brother wasn’t here and I wept.
Tears of joy. Tears of grief. Tears in relief that it’s all over.
Tears that we’re living in the already but not yet.
Tears for the day we will all be together.
Birth is never just the birth of a new human.
It’s so much more.

šŸ“ø: the wonderfully talented

Alt title: how is he 15 days old already?!
06/26/2025

Alt title: how is he 15 days old already?!

He’s here.More to come eventually. šŸ“ø  šŸ¤²šŸ¼  šŸ‘©šŸ»ā€āš•ļøšŸ‘©šŸ»ā€āš•ļø
06/12/2025

He’s here.
More to come eventually.

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Ready when you are, Baby B. -Just kidding. We’re never ready for a baby. But v ready to not be pregnant anymore. This is...
05/28/2025

Ready when you are, Baby B.
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Just kidding. We’re never ready for a baby.
But v ready to not be pregnant anymore.
This is brutal yall.
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Also this is what ā€œinadequateā€ prenatal care looks like according to the MIC. Still struggling to see what is inadequate about this.

There are few moments in life we truly have no control over. Two of those are birth and death.-Though being who we are, ...
05/18/2025

There are few moments in life we truly have no control over. Two of those are birth and death.
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Though being who we are, us humans sure do try to control both.
We induce labor, we monitor, we take the anti-aging supplements, we get the surgeries. We try and try and try and yet even in the most managed of situations we have no control.
At some point in both birth and death, we surrender.
We either are forced to surrender, no matter how white our knuckles may be to the invisible control we create in our minds.
Or we choose to surrender. In trust, faith, confidence, humility, weakness, strength. We surrender.

In that surrender, we have a choice.
Just like in our day to day lives, we choose.
The choice is what to worship.
We can worship the rationale.
ā€œThank God for the doctors.ā€
ā€œI’m so glad I was in the hospital.ā€
ā€œHe lived a full life.ā€
ā€œShe’s not suffering anymore.ā€
We can worship the fight, make the shirts, create the pages.
We can worship our bodies, honor them for the work they’ve done.
We can worship the end result, the baby, the peace of a final resting place, the relief that comes from not being pregnant anymore.
We can worship almost any aspect of birth and death and make them supreme.
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Part of what I love most about birth is seeing that shift happen in people. From fear, anxiety, fight, to acceptance, surrender, worship.
For me, that’s what makes labor not so scary. Birth is an opportunity to worship.
A sacred meeting place of the groans of humanity, our aching in our limitations, and the anticipation of what’s to come, hope for relief, cries of joy, something better and more lovely than ourselves.
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As I enter my final few days or weeks of pregnancy, I’m leaning into the surrender and trust in the unknown, sacred, and raw opportunity to worship in a way we only experience in those moments of life where time before and after intersect.
May my offering of worship be all it is meant to be.

In honor of Mother’s days weekend, here are 10 mothers I aspire to be for one reason or another. -Who would you add?
05/10/2025

In honor of Mother’s days weekend, here are 10 mothers I aspire to be for one reason or another.
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Who would you add?

Reminiscing on my time as only a girl mom, this fun maternity session with  & when I was able to sit in the floor and ge...
05/08/2025

Reminiscing on my time as only a girl mom, this fun maternity session with & when I was able to sit in the floor and get back up with ease.

9 years ago today I found out about my first jelly bean. I ran out of pills and we assumed we’d start trying for a baby ...
05/04/2025

9 years ago today I found out about my first jelly bean.
I ran out of pills and we assumed we’d start trying for a baby soon anyways.
Less than a month later we were here.
We were told to prepare for a few months of the birth control getting out of my system…. They were wrong.
Stay safe yall šŸ«£šŸ˜‚

Just a suggestion.A starting point. -When most of us of childbearing age were born, the maternal mortality rate was some...
04/22/2025

Just a suggestion.
A starting point.
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When most of us of childbearing age were born, the maternal mortality rate was somewhere around 8-10 deaths per 100,000 live births.
In 2024 it was 22.3.
And that’s not considering racial discrepancies in these stats.
Like in 2023 when black mothers were dying at a rate of 50.3 deaths per 100,000.
We don’t need an insulting check that doesn’t even cover the cost of birth.
We need a promise, hope, action to keep us alive as the literal most basic starting point.

Ps: I heard midwives attending most births and not literal trained surgeons who can’t even palpate an abdomen might be a solution….

Sneaks from  pulled me out of the pit of pregnancy despair today. Dramatic but true. And yes, this is in my house.And no...
04/19/2025

Sneaks from pulled me out of the pit of pregnancy despair today. Dramatic but true.
And yes, this is in my house.
And no, we don’t have all the paint off us yet.

And this isn’t a bash towards my husband. I just really love these things.
04/07/2025

And this isn’t a bash towards my husband.
I just really love these things.

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What is Thirteen & Finn?

Thirteen & Finn Doula Services is the doula practice of Cortney Louge (that’s me!), DONA trained Birth Doula. Thirteen & Finn was created after years of learning about birth work and the need for prenatal education and labor and birth support for pregnant people. My interest in pregnancy and birth was sparked in 2015 after supporting my first birth, the birth of my nephew Finn. That passion only continued to intensify through my own two pregnancies and births. Finally, after a lot of reading and research, I decided to take the plunge and begin the process of certification as a birth doula through Doulas of North America International (DONA).

What is a Birth Doula?

A Birth Doula is a compassionate advocate who supports a birthing person during labor and birth. Birth Doulas provide evidence- based, impartial information during a pregnant persons prenatal season to help them make informed decisions about their care. Birth Doulas are trained to provide continuous, hands-on, one-on-one physical and emotional support to birthing persons and their partners during labor and birth.

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