02/01/2026
There’s a lie that keeps spiritual creatives trapped in the same year of their life on repeat. It sounds responsible. It sounds mature. It sounds like self-awareness. It’s actually a delay spell.
“I just need to heal a little more first.” That sentence sounds wise, yet it often carries the energy of bargaining. It treats purpose like something you earn once you reach emotional perfection. It treats leadership like something you receive only after you’re polished enough to be seen.
That isn’t healing. That is negotiation. I used to do this. I believed I couldn’t post certain things, show certain parts of myself, or speak with full conviction because I was a business mentor. In my head, that meant I had to look healed, perfect, unbothered, always high-vibe, always filtered.
So I edited myself. I filtered my face, my opinions, and my life. Anything too human felt risky. Anything too messy felt like it would disqualify me. Authority did not increase from that. I just became more palatable. More digestible. More safe. Power did not grow there.
Everything shifted when devotion replaced performance. I stopped trying to appear healed and started leading with truth. I posted without needing my life to look pristine first. I let people see what wasn’t curated for approval. That’s when my business grew.
People do not want a perfect mentor. People want a real one. They can feel when you’re leading from embodiment instead of performance. Healing is not a prerequisite for purpose. Healing is often the byproduct of purpose. You don’t finish healing and then lead. You lead, and healing catches up to the woman you were brave enough to become.
“I need to heal more first” can be true. For most people, it’s disguised avoidance. It’s the nervous system delaying the moment you become visible enough to be impacted by your own power. Your next chapter doesn’t require perfection. It requires devotion. Readiness is created through movement. Your gift activates in expression.
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