14/09/2024
Hey Folks,
Serious question here,
As many of you know, I run an Equine Therapy Farm called for Horses for Hope , Horses4hope.org.
Funding this venture falls squarely on my shoulders and I promised myself NO PERSON would ever pay to come here and feel better. The LAST thing I want is for some person who is struggling mentally to feel like they can't come because they don't have a $25 admission fee etc. LIfe is hard enough! I started this as a way for my former teammates who were struggling with life after hockey to deal with the emotional stress and despair that comes with life after sports. If you have never played at that level then you do not understand. I hear people say " F**k him, he made all that money and I am gonna feel bad for him ?" or " what does he have to feel badly about" etc , TO be CLEAR, I never played for money, I never turned pro, I played D1 college and cup of coffee with the National Team and I struggled. I had family who supported me and I was fortunate to have a degree and a career to fall back on and Quite honestly , If you KNOW ME, Hockey was never that important to me, believe it or not. I was FORCED into playing and it just BECAME who I was, BUT NEVER who I wanted to be. NOW IMAGINE that is all you ever wanted to be and you did NOTHING but that your whole life and its over at 30 years old. Yeah you made some money but agents and taxes and EX WIVES and child support and dishonest money managers , it goes quickly and then what ? You are 30 years old and no idea what you are going to do and your "FRIENDS" all disappear and the ladies that loved you , yeah they are all gone as well.. its only you and your thoughts and A LOT of guys can not handle that . MENTAL HEALTH is VERY REAL folks ..
THey feel worthless and see their only relief is a gunshot to the head or a needle in their arm . I am trying to change that for them .
Well in the process of all this I found that it isnt just my old teammates who struggle, It is kids in school who are being bullied relentlessly, It is that single parent working two jobs just to keep the lights on, the woman who is too ashamed to admit that her coward husband or boyfriend beats her , or the man so in love he cant walk away from a woman who constantly cheats and disrespects him publicly. It is our hero men and women who fight crime and fires who battle UNIMAGINABLE DEMONS from what they see and experience in the line of duty. It is our NURSES AND DOCTORS who struggle with losing a 4 year old child to senseless gun violence. I could go on and on with the things and people I see at the barn but I think you can imagine what it is like.
The cost to run this place is well over $15k per month between taxes and vet bills and feed and farrier and barn supplies etc and general maintenance of the barn and the indoor riding arena. To give you an idea, My electric bill last month was over $1900 , for one month! lol We have 6 AMAZING animals here but they are horses, if there is a way to generate a vet bill , they will find it ! lol
I am fortunate to have a career where I can cover these bills but BARELY and as much as I would like to believe I will live forever the fact is I have horses here who will outlive me , I have taken measures to ensure that this place will ALWAYS be a Therapy Horse farm. It CAN NEVER be sold or developed even after I am gone. The horses and the people who come here will ALWAYS have a home and a place to feel better when they are feeling depressed.
Having said all that ! lol . As a Registered 501 (c) (3) Non Profit with both the State of RI and IRS, I am allowed to run a cash raffle to raise funds if I choose to, AFTER getting approval in writing from the RISP and The Cranston Municipal Police Dept. There is much more that goes into it which I wont bore you with here , It wasnt just get a 501 C 3 and run a raffle, you have to meet ALL the criteria which we took great pains to achieve .. lol so my question to all of you after that novelette, lol is this:
How much would you be willing to spend on a raffle ticket if first prize was $100K and 2nd prize was $50K and amount of tickets sold was limited to 500. Would you spend $500 for a ticket for a 500-1 shot to win $100k and 499-1 shot to win $50K
top prize is $100K and Second prize is $50K.
or spend $100 for a ticket for a chance to win $10K first prize and $5k second prize. same odds 500-1 only 500 tickets will be sold. It is just something , among other things, I am kicking around in my head as ways to raise money for Horses 4 Hope and keep everything free for everyone who comes to feel better and see the boys and now our lone girl DAKOTA! Right now I fund this myself and while I enjoy Ramen noodles , I would rather not eat them exclusively for the rest of my life!
thanks everyone !