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03/04/2026

Been thinking a lot about connection lately…

When there’s no feedback coming back to you, how do you know that your loved one “Is there?”

It’s a straightforward answer - follow your instinct, follow your gut.

My dad lost his ability to coherently speak within a very short time, but his physical body was still intact.

Sure, he wasn’t the same dad…he never regained any ability to tell me how he was feeling or what he was wanting…but still… we somehow knew what would help him.

We knew music would bring back joy
We knew he loved a good piece of steak
We knew when he was struggling and needed extra love an patience
We knew he would respond better to calm tones

His eyes could speak, even if his words couldn’t.

Trust yourself and most importantly, trust them.
They are there, and they are grateful for you.

Link in bio to list of things that help with connection when words fail.

02/27/2026

One thing that surprises a lot of families is this:

Dementia doesn’t just affect memory - It affects judgment and decision-making too.

You might see them wearing a winter coat on a hot day.
Leaving the stove on.
Giving away money.
Freezing when you ask, “Which one do you want?”

It’s not that they don’t care...

Their brain just isn’t processing information the way it used to.

Decisions that once took seconds can feel overwhelming & paralyzing.

What helps:
• Offer fewer choices
• Use simple language
• Lay things out instead of asking open-ended questions
• Build routines
• Guide gently instead of expecting reasoning

Small changes in how we approach things can make the day feel safer for both of you.

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Asking for help isn’t weakness. It’s how care becomes manageable.Caregiving is heavy, and no one is supposed to carry it...
02/20/2026

Asking for help isn’t weakness. It’s how care becomes manageable.

Caregiving is heavy, and no one is supposed to carry it by themselves. Getting support doesn’t mean you’re failing — it means you’re making sure you can keep going.

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Hi my lovely followers - sorry I’ve been completely MIA the past couple of weeks but I’m back now and will be back to re...
02/16/2026

Hi my lovely followers - sorry I’ve been completely MIA the past couple of weeks but I’m back now and will be back to regularly posting and sharing about dementia related topics.

Thanks to my sister, I had the opportunity to help support with the opening ceremony of the Super Bowl and I couldn’t pass it up!

It’s the second year I’ve gotten to work alongside her, to be a fly on the wall, and witness the beauty of the team effort it takes from incredibly talented humans to make moments like these a reality for all of us to enjoy.

The best part of it was I got to work alongside 3 of my siblings - grinding, staying up late and just having all the fun. I know our dad is looking down, smiling at us, celebrating.

It’s hard to believe that this is our reality sometimes. As a family we had endure many dark years, but look at us now. 🫶

To all you caregivers that are in the thick of things…I know it’s impossible to imagine brighter days sometimes but I can tell you that they exist.

Grateful for you all ❤️

Caregiving stretches you in ways nothing else can.If today feels heavy, remember how strong you’ve already become.Save 📌...
02/03/2026

Caregiving stretches you in ways nothing else can.
If today feels heavy, remember how strong you’ve already become.

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❌ Myth. Repetition isn’t intentional—and it isn’t something they can control 🧠They’re not trying to frustrate you 😔Their...
01/29/2026

❌ Myth.
Repetition isn’t intentional—and it isn’t something they can control 🧠
They’re not trying to frustrate you 😔
Their brain just isn’t holding onto the moment.

Repetition is exhausting 😮💨
Feeling annoyed that this is happening doesn’t make you a bad caregiver!!

Here are real, practical things that actually help when the same question or story keeps coming up:

1. Answer calmly… then redirect 🔄
2. Use visual reminders 📝
3. Don’t correct—reassure instead 🫶
4. Give yourself permission to pause or step away. ⏸️

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Caregiving isn’t one big moment—it’s the small, quiet things done with patience, compassion, and love.Every day you show...
01/27/2026

Caregiving isn’t one big moment—it’s the small, quiet things done with patience, compassion, and love.

Every day you show up matters more than you realize.

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🧠 Myth or Fact?“People with dementia can’t enjoy life.”Myth.A dementia diagnosis doesn’t erase the ability to feel joy, ...
01/22/2026

🧠 Myth or Fact?
“People with dementia can’t enjoy life.”

Myth.

A dementia diagnosis doesn’t erase the ability to feel joy, connection, or love. With the right support, familiar routines, meaningful activities, and companionship, many people with dementia continue to experience deeply fulfilling moments.

Often, it’s the simple things—a shared laugh, music, time together—that matter most.

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01/21/2026

'When is dad coming to visit?'
'Will I be going home soon?'
'Who are you?'

For those close to people with dementia, how to respond to difficult questions can be a daily challenge. Is it acceptable to lie - ever? Or should we just tell the brutal truth - always?

Read our advice to understand more about this behaviour and decide when it might be better to lie or not tell the whole truth: http://spkl.io/6180AWvUQ

It requires empathy—understanding that people with dementia are having difficulties, not creating them. 🤍Behavior is com...
01/20/2026

It requires empathy—understanding that people with dementia are having difficulties, not creating them. 🤍

Behavior is communication.
Confusion isn’t intentional.

And patience changes EVERYTHING.

If this reframes a hard moment today, you’re not alone.

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01/18/2026

One of the hardest parts of dementia is seeing behavior change and not knowing why.

Things that used to be easy...like getting dressed, or stepping into the shower can all of the sudden feel scary or overwhelming.

You might see responses like resistance, agitation, or pulling away. And when you don’t know what’s behind it, it can feel confusing… even personal.

Most of the time, it isn’t personal.

These moments usually come from fear, sensory overload, or not fully understanding what’s happening.

In that moment, it’s not that they won’t.
It’s that they truly can’t.

What can help:
slowing things down, keeping your voice calm, reducing noise, offering simple choices, and validating how they feel before trying to fix anything.

If behavior changes are showing up in your home, know that this is OK & normal.

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01/18/2026

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