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I don’t have a fancy agenda.I’m not here to be perfect or polished.I just want to tell people about a man named Jesus.Th...
05/08/2025

I don’t have a fancy agenda.
I’m not here to be perfect or polished.
I just want to tell people about a man named Jesus.

The One who met me in my mess.
The One who saw me when I was numb, lost, and tired of pretending.
The One who’s still walking with me as I grow.

This isn’t about performance.
It’s about presence.
It’s about pointing back to the One who saves, who heals, who restores.

I wrote a blog post straight from my heart—no fluff, no filters.
Just the truth about how Jesus changed everything for me.

If you’ve ever felt unseen, unsure, or searching for something real…
I invite you to read it.

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Are you constantly striving to meet expectations and feeling burnt out? It’s easy to get stuck in performance mode, thin...
03/05/2025

Are you constantly striving to meet expectations and feeling burnt out?

It’s easy to get stuck in performance mode, thinking we have to prove ourselves through actions, deadlines, and perfection.

I get it, I was just like that. In fact when I started GBGG 3 years I fell into the trap of thinking because I had met these arbitrary deadlines I gave myself that my community owed me.

(Read my full testimony in the blog)

But here’s the truth: God never called us to perform. He called us to live out our purpose in Him. Whether we meet the deadline or not, God’s purpose and plan still prevails.

That’s why I created the March Bible Study “Freedom in Faith” held via Zoom on Sunday 3/16 at 7:30p CST, we’ll dive into how to break free from the pressure of performance and walk in God’s peace and purpose. 🙌✨

Let go of striving and embrace God’s perfect timing. Trust that He’s working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28).

Join us this month and step into freedom in your faith. Click the link in bio to sign up!

Faith Over Fear: Walking Boldly in Your Calling🌱What if the only thing standing between you and your God-given purpose i...
02/26/2025

Faith Over Fear: Walking Boldly in Your Calling🌱

What if the only thing standing between you and your God-given purpose is fear? 🤔 Too often, we let doubts and insecurities keep us from stepping into what God has already equipped us for.

Fear whispers: You’re not ready. You’re not qualified. You’re not enough.

But God’s truth speaks louder: I have called you. I will equip you. I am with you.

No more letting fear hold you back! Here’s how to overcome fear and walk in faith:

✨ Identify the Fear – Ask yourself: What’s really holding me back? Fear of failure? Judgment? Unworthiness? Bring it before God in prayer.

✨ Replace Fear with Faith – Meditate on scriptures like 2 Timothy 1:7 (God has not given us a spirit of fear...) and Joshua 1:9 (Be strong and courageous!).

✨ Take One Bold Step – Faith is action. Even a small step forward shifts your mindset from hesitation to obedience.

✨ Surround Yourself with Faith-Filled Support – You don’t have to do this alone! A strong community will encourage and uplift you.

✨ Surrender the Outcome to God – You don’t have to have all the answers. Trust that God is guiding, providing, and equipping you along the way.

🌿 My Go-To Verse When Fear Creeps In: Psalm 23; it reminds me that fear will always be present, but God is still leading, guiding, and comforting me through it.

If fear has been holding you back, let this be your sign: that it is time to move forward in faith! 🙌🏾

Need guidance? Download my free Spirit-Led Living Bible Study to help you take faith-led action even when fear tries to keep you stuck.

Drop a 🤎 in the comments if you’re ready to trust God and walk boldly in your purpose!

Which one of these truths will you begin declaring today? Drop it in the comments ! 🏷️
02/19/2025

Which one of these truths will you begin declaring today? Drop it in the comments !

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Good Morning and Happy Monday, Beautiful Souls!I hope you’re enjoying the holiday today and taking some time to rest.Jus...
02/17/2025

Good Morning and Happy Monday, Beautiful Souls!

I hope you’re enjoying the holiday today and taking some time to rest.

Just a gentle reminder that tonight, I’ll be hosting a Word, Worship & Wellness session inside the Flourishing Faith Fellowship community! 🙌

We’ll be:
• Grounded in Scripture
• Lifted in Worship
• Refreshed in Wellness

This session is a perfect way to reset and recharge. I’d love for you to join me tonight and experience it for FREE!

The session will be at 8:30 PM CST, and it’ll last about an hour. If you’d like the Zoom link or more details, comment “wellness”.

See you there! ✨

Sis, have you ever believed the lie that you’re not enough? That you have to prove your worth? Or that you’ll never chan...
02/15/2025

Sis, have you ever believed the lie that you’re not enough? That you have to prove your worth? Or that you’ll never change?

You’re not alone. So many of us wrestle with these thoughts, but here’s the truth: God never intended for us to live under these lies.

✨ Lie #1: “I’m Not Enough” → Truth: God’s strength is sufficient for you (2 Corinthians 12:9). You don’t have to be perfect—His grace carries you.

✨ Lie #2: “I Have to Prove My Worth” → Truth: You are God’s masterpiece (Ephesians 2:10). Your value isn’t in what you do but in who you are in Him.

✨ Lie #3: “I’ll Never Change” → Truth: God is always renewing you (Romans 12:2). Transformation is possible when you align with His truth.

I’ve seen so many women experience freedom when they stop believing these lies and start standing in God’s promises—including the women inside my Flourishing Faith Fellowship where we’re growing in faith together every day.

If you’ve been struggling with your identity, I wrote a blog post breaking these lies down—and showing you what God says instead.

Comment the phrase “Lie to Truth” and I’ll send you the link to read the full post

MYTH: “I have to prove my worth to the world.”Maybe you’ve felt the pressure to prove yourself—to show the world you’re ...
02/07/2025

MYTH: “I have to prove my worth to the world.”

Maybe you’ve felt the pressure to prove yourself—to show the world you’re valuable, capable, or “good enough.” Whether it’s through achievements, appearance, or approval, it can feel like you’re always striving but never arriving.

Society tells us that our worth is measured by what we do, how we look, or what others think. So when we fall short, fail, or struggle, it’s easy to believe the lie that we have to work harder to earn our place, our love, even God’s approval.

Believing that you have to prove your worth keeps you in a cycle of striving, exhaustion, and self-doubt. You’ll always feel like you’re chasing an invisible standard that keeps moving. And the enemy loves this—because as long as you’re trying to earn what God has already given, you’ll never fully walk in freedom.

But here’s the truth: You don’t have to prove what God has already declared.

When you gave your life to Christ, you became a new creation (2 Corinthians 5:17). Your past, your mistakes, and even your “not enough” moments? They don’t define you—God does.

I know this struggle personally. For years, I believed my worth was something I had to earn—through hard work, perfection, or being “good enough” for others. But no matter what I did, the feeling never lasted. I was constantly chasing validation, but never at peace.

Then one day, God led me to Isaiah 43:18-19—“Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing!” It hit me: I was exhausting myself trying to prove something that God had already spoken over me.

What if, instead of proving your worth, you started embracing it?
What if you let go of the pressure to measure up and stepped fully into who God says you are—loved, chosen, and redeemed?

Here’s what happens when you stop striving for approval and start standing in your God-given identity:
✔ You walk in confidence instead of insecurity.
✔ You live in peace instead of pressure.
✔ You embrace grace instead of perfection.

This shift changed everything for me—and it can for you too.

Continued in the comments …

I’ll never forget the night I felt like The Ugly Duckling in my own skin. Standing next to my roommate, who looked flawl...
02/03/2025

I’ll never forget the night I felt like The Ugly Duckling in my own skin.

Standing next to my roommate, who looked flawless in her cropped top and high heels, I felt out of place in my combat boots and ripped jeans.

My thoughts spiraled: “Do I even belong here?”

Maybe you’ve been there too—feeling like you don’t measure up, questioning if you’re “enough” because the world’s definition of self-love tells you to be more, do more, or look a certain way.

But here’s the truth: Biblical self-love isn’t about fitting into the world’s mold—it’s about reflecting God’s love for you.🤎

Worldly vs. Biblical Self-Love

Worldly self-love says: Put yourself first. Chase validation. Define your worth on external things.

Biblical self-love says: God created you with purpose. Your worth is in Him. Care for yourself in a way that honors Him.

When you root your identity in Christ, you stop striving for temporary validation and start embracing the unshakable love God has for you.

“I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made.”– Psalm 139:14

God is ready for His daughters to cultivate self-love His way? If you are in agreement with God, join my free Bible study where we’ll walk through 5 key principles of biblical self-love and create a personalized action plan.

Join now because only those signed up will receive the exclusive Self-Love Action Plan!

Drop a 🤎 in the comments if you’re choosing God’s version of self-love over the world’s!

Are You Feeling Spiritually Stuck? It’s time to break free from fear, overthinking, and spiritual stagnation! “Spirit-Le...
01/31/2025

Are You Feeling Spiritually Stuck?

It’s time to break free from fear, overthinking, and spiritual stagnation! “Spirit-Led Living: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Turning Conviction into Action” will help you move from just knowing the Word to actively living it out.

Learn how to shift from a fleshly mind to a Holy Spirit-led life

Discover how to capture negative thoughts & align them with God’s truth

Take bold, faith-filled action toward your spiritual growth

DM “Study” to get the link

I’m so excited to invite you to our FREE Galentine’s Bible Study!  ✨ Cultivating Biblical Self-Love: A Galentine’s Bible...
01/24/2025

I’m so excited to invite you to our FREE Galentine’s Bible Study!

✨ Cultivating Biblical Self-Love: A Galentine’s Bible Study for Christian Women ✨

This is not just any Bible study—this is a special time for you to focus on the love that God has for you and how to reflect that love in how you treat yourself. 💕

Whether you’re single or in a relationship, this study is designed to help you grow in your emotional well-being and deepen your relationship with God, so that you can confidently live out His love in every area of your life.

Why Should You Join?

We often hear about the importance of loving others, but it’s just as essential to understand and embrace the love God has for you. When you do, it transforms how you relate to yourself, your emotions, and your relationship with God.

I’m so excited to partner with you in this journey of cultivating biblical self-love and developing a deeper understanding of God’s heart for you. Let’s celebrate this Galentine’s Day by loving ourselves just as Christ loves us, and experiencing emotional healing and freedom in the process!

P.S. Make sure to sign up soon! This virtual study starts Sunday, 2/9 at 6:30p CST, and spots are limited!

DM “Self-Love” to get the link

🌟 Introducing the 1-Day Voxer Biblical Mentoship & Mindfulness Coaching! 🌟Looking for mentorship, accountability, and pr...
01/23/2025

🌟 Introducing the 1-Day Voxer Biblical Mentoship & Mindfulness Coaching! 🌟

Looking for mentorship, accountability, and practical tools to deepen your faith while improving your emotional well-being? I’ve got something special for you!

For just $25, you’ll get 1 full day of personalized Voxer coaching where we’ll work together to:

✨ Mentor & Hold You Accountable – In prayer, reading God’s Word, and aligning your thoughts with His truth
✨ Build a Christian Mindfulness System – Tailored to help you manage your emotions and stress while staying grounded in God’s peace
✨ Incorporate Powerful Biblical Mindfulness Tools – That you can use daily to align your mind and heart with Christ

Whether you’re struggling with overwhelming emotions or just seeking to grow deeper in your spiritual practice, this mentorship is designed to give you actionable steps for real, lasting transformation.

🔑 Why Join?
• Strengthen your relationship with God through focused prayer & Bible reading
• Learn tools for peace and emotional health rooted in faith
• Have a mentor to guide you and help you stay accountable

$25 for one day of coaching that can change your life. Don’t miss out on this opportunity to start your journey to emotional well-being, mindfulness, and deeper connection with God.

👉 DM me to sign up today! Spots are limited!

Comment FORGIVENESS to get the link to the blogpost where I explain this in more detail. For church girls who are ready ...
01/18/2025

Comment FORGIVENESS to get the link to the blogpost where I explain this in more detail.

For church girls who are ready to improve her emotional well-being, move beyond religion, and step into a real and consistent relationship with Christ

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