03/12/2025
Yes, yes they will be left out.
If you delay smartphones & refuse social media until a time when their brains are more equipped to handle it, they will 100% get left out.
Left out of dangerous tik tok trends.
Left out of Instagram drama.
Left out of Snapchat n**e pics.
Left out of comparison and body image traps.
Left out of knowing what every friend is doing without them.
Left out of mindless scrolling.
Left out of living online.
Left out of pornsites.
Left out of addictive gaming.
Left out of burning bridges.
Left out of inappropriate conversations.
Left out of incessant bullying.
Left out of possible predators.
Left out of sleepless nights.
Left out of MA shows.
Left out of explicit lyrics.
Left of out losing their innocence.
Left out of endless distractions.
Yes, they are going to be left out.
And probably left out of some friend groups & cool crowds & middle school romances & meet ups & funny memes & weekend parties.
Itβs a bummer but Iβll take it.
And Iβm not naive enough to think that holding off on a phone, internet or social media takes away all the junk. Of course it wonβt.
But it also doesnβt open the door and usher it in with my silent blessing.
Being left out is a small price to pay for a fighting chance at becoming the person they were meant to be in this crazy, mixed up world.
And if more parents would choose this path, it would be a little less lonely.
Heck, maybe even be cool.
But even if it never is, I am π― positive that I will stand my ground.
Because there are far worse things than being left out.
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Parents,
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Delay the smartphone until at least 8th grade with our pledge!
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Get a basic phone if you need to get in touch before then. We have some listed on our website and on our Instagram Story highlight .
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Don't give a fully loaded smartphone when you do permit a smartphone. Start slowly. Take off the internet browser, games and access to the App Store. Put time and place restrictions in place via parental controls.
You've got this parents! πππ