By Divine Design Coaching

09/26/2025

Welcome back to The High Ticket Woman. In the first two parts of this series, we explored mismatched libidos and mismatched love languages—the hidden ways couples can drift apart when their needs don’t line up. Today, we wrap up with one more area that quietly impacts almost every marriage: mismatched lifestyles.

What happens when one spouse is a homebody and the other craves a social calendar? Or when one finds rest in silence while the other comes alive in a crowd? These differences aren’t just about preferences—they’re about energy, rhythm, and the meaning we attach to each other’s choices.

In this episode, I’ll share Aaron and Leah’s story (a composite drawn from real couples I’ve worked with), unpack the dynamics of introversion and extroversion in marriage, and show you how these differences can shift from points of tension into places of balance. You’ll hear practical tools for honoring your spouse’s pace, blending your rhythms, and planning with intention so both of you feel seen.

At the heart of it, mismatched lifestyles don’t have to divide you. They can actually draw you closer—if you learn to name your needs, value your differences, and walk side by side with curiosity and grace.

Because marriage isn’t about sameness—it’s about oneness. And when you stop fighting each other’s wiring, you discover the beauty of complementing one another instead.

Ready to rebuild your marriage from the inside out?
My 6-month intensive marriage recovery program is designed to help you heal deeply, communicate better, and reconnect emotionally and spiritually. Learn more at https://debbiecaudle.com/therapy-for-christian-couples/.

https://open.spotify.com/episode/4qUbSdz4U0LLImMLTYisJl?si=d18c9a188f944563

The High Ticket Woman · Episode

09/25/2025

Why a Little “Umph” Can Change Everything in Your Marriage

If you want a marriage that truly thrives, you’ve got to put in the work.

Think about it—no house is built without sweat equity. No athlete wins without training. And no marriage transforms without effort.

That means:
– Showing up when it would be easier to shut down.
– Having the tough conversations instead of sweeping things under the rug.
– Practicing forgiveness and patience daily, not just when it feels convenient.

Change won’t magically appear. It takes rolling up your sleeves and choosing to invest—again and again—until the small deposits grow into a marriage that stands strong.

That’s the heartbeat behind Marriage in Bloom, my six-month marriage intensive. It’s for couples ready to stop drifting and start building—with real tools, real accountability, and a plan that works.

👉 Start today: https://debbiecaudle.com/therapy-for-christian-couples/

09/24/2025

What does it take to build a relationship that isn’t just exciting in the beginning, but deeply committed and emotionally fulfilling for the long haul?

In this conversation, I sit down with Bern Mendez—a neuroscience-based dating and relationship coach whose YouTube channel has drawn over 30 million views worldwide. With 14+ years of experience helping accomplished women in midlife form the kind of partnerships they’ve always dreamed of, Bern brings a blend of science, strategy, and soul to the table.

Bern has coached women in 24 countries—including physicians, Fortune 100 executives, and entrepreneurs—guiding them toward partnerships built on emotional depth, respect, and lasting commitment.

If you’ve ever wondered why love feels so complicated, or if it’s too late to find the right relationship, this episode will encourage and empower you with a new perspective.

https://open.spotify.com/episode/6X2uurYf7vXgUP1hlWao6L?si=a-bvRW4JSK6hpFL3zcaLwg

The High Ticket Woman · Episode

09/23/2025

We pray for help.
We plead for relief.
We say, “I can’t carry this alone.”

And then—when our spouse finally steps in—we undo it with corrections, nitpicks, and “that’s not how I would do it.”

Here’s the truth: when help always has to look your way to be valuable, you’re not really asking for partnership—you’re asking for control.

Over time, that control pushes your spouse away, not because they don’t care, but because they don’t feel trusted.

Marriage grows when we let “different” be good enough.
When we value effort over perfection.
When we make space for partnership instead of policing it.

💡 That’s the kind of shift we walk couples through inside Marriage in Bloom—my six-month intensive designed to restore connection, rebuild trust, and create healthier rhythms in your marriage.

09/22/2025

Faith, Marriage & Growth: Weekly Insights from The High‑Ticket Woman

🎧 This Week’s Episodes

Tuesday’s Episode:
Conversation with Bernardo Mendez
Bernardo Mendez, the popular relationship coach and YouTuber, joins me for a deep dive into what it really takes to build authentic connection. We talk about self‑awareness in relationships, boundary work, and how to show up in love—not just in feeling, but in action. If you’ve ever questioned what you bring into your relational patterns, or wondered how to move beyond surface attraction into something rooted, this one is for you.

Friday’s Episode:
Part 3: Mismatched Lifestyles — When Daily Rhythms Pull You Apart

Wrapping up our three‑part series on common mismatches in marriage, this week we explore lifestyles—from how you spend your time, to daily habits, pace, rest, priorities. These aren’t the glamorous differences, but they’re some of the most felt. What happens when one spouse is wired for “go, go, go” and the other craves quiet, or when schedules, priorities, and rhythms don’t align? We share stories, pitfalls, and practical shifts for respecting each other’s way of life while staying connected.

Don’t just listen—let these episodes challenge you to act. Pick one small shift from either episode this week and try it in your marriage. Whether it’s adjusting your schedule, choosing connection over convenience, or speaking a different love language—growth happens in the small consistent motions.

For coaching, community, and tools for relational and emotional healing, visit:
debbiecaudle.com/therapy-for-christian-couples

09/21/2025

Check out today's episode on mismatched love languages - part 2 of a 3 part series. If it feels like your spouse doesn't love you, even though they say they do...this may be why.

https://open.spotify.com/episode/3BKGD9xJEkdiQlaEoe6DzY?si=riy3OibaRxmWUXRz7RCsYQ

The High Ticket Woman · Episode

09/18/2025

When Moms Can’t Fix the Hurt

In this clip from my interview with Jennifer Robb (Warrior Moms Rising), she shares the heart-wrenching reality every mom faces at some point: watching your child hurt and realizing you can’t make it all better. As moms, we want to heal, help, and fix—but sometimes the bravest thing we can do is simply sit in the struggle with our kids.
Full episode available on all major platforms.

09/18/2025

Why You’re Still Tired (Even After You “Moved On”)

How many times have I worked with a woman who seems to have it all together.
But in reality, her heart was heavy, her hope was distant, and her arms were full—of guilt, shame, regret, and silence.

Maybe you’ve been there too.
Dragging the past into the present.
Telling yourself the divorce is over… you've moved on.
But feeling the weight of what was, every single day.

Healing doesn’t mean pretending you're okay when you're not.

✨ Beauty from Ashes is a 7-module course for women who are ready to heal, reclaim their worth, and let God write the next chapter.
This is your invitation to finally put the bags down.

➡ Learn more at: www.debbiecaudle.com/beauty-from-ashes

09/16/2025

In this episode of The High Ticket Woman, I sit down with Jennifer Robb—nurse practitioner, coach, author, and founder of Warrior Moms Rising. Jenn opens up about her personal journey through parenting a child battling anxiety, depression, and trauma, and how those battles reshaped her own identity and calling.

From long nights of fear to the exhausting maze of therapy sessions and school meetings, Jenn learned what it meant to fight for her child while also rediscovering her own strength. Now, she equips other moms to step into that same resilience with practical tools, faith, and encouragement that says: you are not alone, and you are stronger than you think.

Whether you’re a mom navigating your child’s mental health journey, or simply someone longing to hear a story of courage and hope, this conversation will meet you right where you are.

👉 Learn more about Jenn’s work at warriormomcoach.net

https://open.spotify.com/episode/7zc03Dmh51rkYR8z2aV3DP?si=ce78bb97f79a470d

The High Ticket Woman · Episode

09/15/2025

One of the most common—yet least talked about—challenges in marriage is mismatched desire. What happens when one spouse wants intimacy more often than the other?

In this episode of The High Ticket Woman, Debbie Caudle opens the first part of a new series on mismatches in marriage: mismatched libidos, love languages, and lifestyles. Today, she dives deep into the dynamics of desire—why mismatches happen, how they impact the messages couples send to each other, and what practical shifts can turn feelings of rejection or pressure into opportunities for connection.

You’ll hear stories drawn from real couples (with names and details changed), along with insights from Debbie’s 30+ years of working with marriages. This episode will help you see that mismatched desire doesn’t mean something is wrong—it means you’re human. And with honesty, humor, and intentional conversations, you can build intimacy that feels safe, joyful, and mutual.

Tune in and discover how to move past frustration and into deeper closeness.
https://open.spotify.com/episode/09HsjfMVyfIQdsY1BG9gjr?si=fac33cf3d47f4848

The High Ticket Woman · Episode

09/11/2025

The Life You’re Building Needs More Than Good Intentions

You’ve been trying to piece it all together:
Family. Faith. Fulfillment.
But no matter how hard you work or how much you check off your list, there’s still this aching sense that something’s missing.

That missing piece isn’t more effort.
It’s alignment.

The Path Less Traveled was written for the woman who’s ready to stop striving and start living with clarity, conviction, and divine purpose.

Because when you find the missing piece, everything starts to make sense.

📖 Get your copy today → https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08PPZ57ZN/

09/10/2025

“If you really cared, you’d fight for me—not threaten to leave.”

When someone says, “I’m done,” in the middle of every argument… It’s not just drama—it’s damage.

🚪 Sometimes it’s an escape hatch.
⚡ Sometimes it’s a cry for power.
💔 But every time, it erodes the safety a relationship needs to grow.

In this post, we break down why people threaten to leave—and what it’s really costing your connection.

There’s a better way. Inside Marriage in Bloom, we teach couples how to stop using ultimatums and start communicating with clarity, respect, and trust.

Tap through to see if you recognize any of these patterns—and visit debbiecaudle.com/therapy-for-christian-couples
To start the reset your marriage needs.