03/30/2021
I’m not sure who needs to hear this right now...
An increasing number of people over the past 4-6 weeks have approached me about how to lose the weight they’ve gained during the pandemic— in some instances 20 pounds or more. I think this has been a combination of summer coming, hope that the vaccinations will continue to allow us to open things up and lead closer to normal lives, and somehow everyone must have collectively stepped on the scale recently!! Here is what you must know:
Do not compare yourselves to others on or off Facebook. People have handled the mental strain of the pandemic differently. Some have been more in survival mode and less in personal development mode, maybe been fearful of going to the gym, eating mindlessly to combat stress— and yet others used the time to exercise at home and found new ways of keeping in shape to help their sanity— or on the flip side ate less due to stress or loss of a loved one. DO NOT JUDGE. Step back and realize that the your weight in this moment on the outside does not reflect your true self, only a reaction to stress from a pandemic that hopefully we will never again see in our lifetimes.
Second, to make change, you must first be KIND to yourself. Honestly this is the hardest one. (See above about not comparing yourself). It is not unusual for people to tell me they want the weight off in the quickest way possible (I don’t have to tell you that’s not healthy) and more often than not this is coupled with crying. Be happy you are alive to read this. Be in awe that you adapted during a very long, stressful, uncertain process which included no playbook. And when you are ready, dip a toe in the idea of making a few healthy changes to get started. Not because someone else looks better, but because it’s time to focus on you again.
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