Informed Birth Nurse

Informed Birth Nurse Helping families feel informed and supported through pregnancy, birth, and postpartum.
📍Serving the Quad Cities

03/18/2026

this is for you 💜

Can you have a birth plan for a scheduled C-section? Yes. Here’s exactly what I’d put on mine.

I’m Charlotte, an L&D nurse turned doula and childbirth educator. I’ve been in the room for hundreds of births, including a lot of C-sections, and I want you to know that a planned cesarean is still YOUR birth. You still get a say.

Here’s what to consider including:

Environment: Ask staff to keep conversation to a minimum and request that your doctor narrate what’s happening as it happens. You shouldn’t be lying on that table wondering what’s going on.

Music: Request your own playlist. It’s your baby’s birthday, not your surgeon’s Spotify.

Delayed cord clamping: This should be standard, at least 60 seconds. Ask for it anyway.

Partner cuts the cord: Ask that the cord is cut long so your partner can trim it at the warmer. Not necessary but fun.

Skin to skin in the OR: Look into a Most hospitals don’t have them but they make OR skin to skin much easier

Baby stays with you: Ask that your partner and baby remain in the OR until you’re fully closed. If you aren’t feeling up to skin to skin you could have dad hold baby swaddled.

Dad does skin to skin in recovery: While they’re transferring you to the room, have your partner do skin to skin with baby

Delay weights, measurements, and meds: Until you’re settled in recovery and ready.

Newborn medications: The standard offerings are Vitamin K, Hep B vaccine, and erythromycin eye ointment. List what you want and what you’re declining.

One thing I can’t stress enough: run all of this by your provider before your delivery day. If they shut down every request, that’s important information about whether you’re delivering at the right hospital.

Drop any questions below 💜

03/16/2026

The ultrasound tech going quiet during your 20 week scan is a special kind of torture nobody prepares you for.

You’re lying there trying to read a stranger’s face like your life depends on it. Your partner is watching the screen like it’s a nature documentary. And you’re doing a full threat assessment on every pause, every head tilt, every “hmm.”

Then she turns the screen toward you with 16 printed photos because baby was being cute.

The audacity of our anxiety honestly 😂

I’m Charlotte, L&D nurse turned doula and childbirth educator. I’ve been in that ultrasound room hundreds of times and I promise you, you are not the only one spiraling while she was just trying to get a good angle on the spine.

Did you spiral at your 20 week scan? 👇

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