09/04/2025
It's not "just a photo." It's the moment your baby was brought over to the warmer so the nurse could do the baby exam and other things. This means separation, unfamiliarity, baby begins to cry, so maybe you begin talking to them, you touch their feet, or their hands to let them know you're near. To bring them that familiarity and calmness from something they recognize from the womb. They become familiar to certain touch, voices, sounds and warmth in their months of growing. They know who you are. It's a photo that shows the love you have for your baby, the moment you wanted to pick up and comfort your baby but comforted them in another way. It's one of the first moments of connection you share with them in the outside world.
Not everyone is looking to capture these moments for you, not even ourselves at times because we're too caught up on the moment. Taking it all in, so we miss the moments in photos. It's my job to watch and observe all of the big and little things so you can look back at all of those first moments you spent with your baby as you welcomed them into the world. You'll get to cherish and relieve these moments forever, which otherwise could've been "forgotten." We do it for our weddings. Why wouldn't you want to look back on bringing your baby into the world?
I've yet to hear anyone say they regret hiring a birth photographer but have heard the regret of not hiring one. I am one of those people. I regret not hiring one for my first three births.
Attending Doula + photographer: Shanika Granville