Embrace The Muchness LLC

Embrace The Muchness LLC ADHD Coaching & Education
Individual & Parent ADHD Coaching
Professional Development & Consultation

I'm an ADHDer and parent of ADHD children who provides ADHD coaching to individuals, groups and parents of ADHD children. I also enjoy providing professional consultation and professional development trainings for helping professionals! I live in Decorah, IA and provide services virtually to folks in the United States & Canada. I utilize a neurodiversity affirming approach which means I view ADHD as a valid variation in how the brain works. I help folks learn about how ADHD brains work and how to work with not against ADHD tendencies.

Want to better understand common nervous system patterns for ADHDers?Looking for clearer, client-friendly ways to explai...
11/19/2025

Want to better understand common nervous system patterns for ADHDers?
Looking for clearer, client-friendly ways to explain these concepts?

Join me for a clinician-focused training on how to utilize the soon-to-be-released Rooted Regulation: ADHD Nervous System Toolkit.
This toolkit includes simple, visual graphics that guide you from a basic understanding of polyvagal theory, to blended states, to more advanced concepts about the unique patterns often seen in ADHD nervous systems. It also includes reflection worksheets.

You’ll learn how to use the toolkit with clients and explore how nervous system regulation and executive functioning influence one another.

All participants receive professional-use rights to the full toolkit so you can immediately integrate it into your clinical work.

The visual images make complex topics more accessible, relatable, and easier for clients to understand.

Friday, December 5th
1:00-3:00pm Central (11:00am-1:00pm Pacific / 12:00-2:00pm Mountain / 2:00-4:00pm Eastern)
Pay What You Can (Suggested donation of $40)
No CE's available

Full info and registration details and registration link at: https://www.embracethemuchness.com/professionaldevelopment

I'm just a girl, standing in front of a hall closet, asking "why the f*** did I open this".Narrator: She stood staring b...
11/11/2025

I'm just a girl, standing in front of a hall closet, asking "why the f*** did I open this".

Narrator: She stood staring blankly into the closet long enough that eventually she remembered she needed to refill the cotton balls in the bathroom. Her ADHD ass will repeat this frequently.

Want a tool to help your neurodivergent clients develop deeper insight into their patterns around task initiation & comp...
11/10/2025

Want a tool to help your neurodivergent clients develop deeper insight into their patterns around task initiation & completion?
The Inner Equilibrium Audit is designed to do just that. It provides a structured, process for clients to collect data on their relationship with each task in their life, then reflect and use the information they've gained to help them plan how they manage their time and energy. It helps clients build executive functioning skills as well as self awareness of their energy and sensory needs.
I've created an on demand training for professionals to walk them through understanding the Inner Equilibrium tool and how they can integrate it into their work with clients.

Training Participants Receive:
- 65 minutes of training videos, including a demo explaining the resource to a "client"
- Facilitator Guide to make simplify navigating this resource
- Digital Files (full workbook as well as individual section files to share with clients as homework and reduce overwhelm
- Professional Use Rights (unlimited use of resources with individual clients)
- Additional bonus resoucres

Cost - $47
Full details at https://www.embracethemuchness.com/inner-equilibrium-audit-training

11/05/2025

Back again today to again temper some of the news articles coming out that have information or headlines that may be a bit concerning.

The American Heart Association released a report regarding melatonin and heart risk. I read through it and there's several pieces I want to highlight as the majority of these were not included in my local news article I saw about this. Many headlines are saying "extended melatonin leads to an increased risk of heart failure".

I'll first name, I'm only translating the actual information released from the AHA. I can't say whether there is or is not any risk. I'm sharing this info here as many ADHDers utilize melatonin to help regulate sleep and may be concerned when reading news headlines. Low dose melatonin is actually recommended for folks with Delayed Sleep Phase Syndrome which is much more prevalent in ADHDers though its used differently than when used to assist with sleep onset. We should always ask further questions about any research before panicking. (Ironically, I'm actually offering a training about ADHD and sleep this Friday)

Here are a few direct quotes from the American Heart Associations website that feel important to point out.

"A review of 5 years of health records for more than 130,000 adults with insomnia who had used melatonin for at least a year found they were more likely to be diagnosed with heart failure, require hospitalization for the condition or die from any cause."
-Notice "or die from any cause" is included here, that indicates there may be other non heart related reasons this population was dying.

"The association between melatonin and increased risk of heart failure or death found in this study, which cannot prove a cause-and-effect relationship, raises safety concerns about the use of melatonin, which is widely available, and may warrant more research on melatonin to assess its cardiovascular safety, researchers said."
- what's important here is the words association, and they are admitting this research does not prove a cause and effect relationship

"Statements and conclusions of studies that are presented at the American Heart Association’s scientific meetings are solely those of the study authors and do not necessarily reflect the Association’s policy or position. The Association makes no representation or guarantee as to their accuracy or reliability."
- At this point in time this study hasn't event been submitted nor accepted and included into a peer reviewed journal. Even the American Heart Association is saying they're not willing to stand behind this data.

"The study included 130,828 adults (average age of 55.7 years; 61.4% women) diagnosed with insomnia."

The fact that the average age was 55 within this study feels important when talking about heart failure. While not always the primary cause of death, everyone's heart stops when they die.

"The study has several limitations. First, the database includes countries that require a prescription for melatonin (such as the United Kingdom) and countries that don’t (such as the United States), and patient locations were not part of the de-identified data available to the researchers. Since melatonin use in the study was based only on those identified from medication entries in the electronic health record, everyone taking it as an over-the-counter supplement in the U.S. or other countries that don’t require a prescription would have been in the non-melatonin group; therefore, the analyses may not accurately reflect this."
-Essentially they are saying there's a high likelihood many people considered to be in the "non melatonin" group actually were taking melatonin since only people prescribed melatonin (countries outside of US) were included in the melatonin group. So, they're control group really wasn't well controlled.

I can't tell you whether it's safe or not and I always recommend consulting with your medical provider. I just wanted to share some things that stuck out to me when I evaluate research based on what I was taught in research classes in both undergrad and graduate school. Given that our government has recently been doing similar things in misrepresenting research (RFK Jr. actually publicly admitted that what they initially said about autism and Tylenol was not accurate last week, but of course thats not been shared as widely as the original inaccurate release), it feels important to provide some education on things to look for and notice when reviewing research. My own ADHD leads me to have a complicated relationship with research articles. I struggle to read them completely, but also can easily get wrapped up in a rabbit hole of connecting all the dots and learning new things.

https://newsroom.heart.org/news/long-term-use-of-melatonin-supplements-to-support-sleep-may-have-negative-health-effects

FYI- I'll save you all from reading the full article.  A generic version of lisdexamphetamine (vyvanse) manufactured by ...
11/05/2025

FYI-
I'll save you all from reading the full article. A generic version of lisdexamphetamine (vyvanse) manufactured by Sun Pharma was recalled. The concern is that the capsules don't dissolve as they should which could make the meds ineffective (but doesn't create any direct harm other than ADHD traits may be more prevalent)

Lot numbers are listed in the article. You'd need to call your pharmacy to inquire if your meds were part of the recalled lot.

Sun Pharmaceutical Industries has recalled several lots lisdexamfetamine dimesylate capsules, a generic form of Vyvanse, after testing found they failed to dissolve properly.

Recently, I was feeling the urge to infuse a bit more color, whimsy and personality into my wardrobe.  While I've never ...
10/18/2025

Recently, I was feeling the urge to infuse a bit more color, whimsy and personality into my wardrobe. While I've never been scared to wear bright colors, historically, it's probably been that the majority of my wardrobe has been practical with a couple fun pieces mixed in and I'm wanting to shift that balance. As I've worked more on getting in touch with my true Self, instead of being concerned about meeting social norms, I've slowly integrated more personality into my clothing.

Next up will be creating a collection of fun earrings! (I've just begun a new hobby of making polymer clay earrings!!) During covid, I stopped changing out my earrings and just kept things simple, but it feels like another way to I can bring in a bit more whimsy and fun!

What's one small thing you've done to connect more with your true Self? 💓

These are the kinds of things I stumbled upon in my ADHD household. Mustaches on stuffed bears. The thing is,  I have no...
10/16/2025

These are the kinds of things I stumbled upon in my ADHD household. Mustaches on stuffed bears. The thing is, I have no idea where the stache came from. Like who bought them and brought them into my home?

There are constant moments in our household where I wonder, "what went on here?" 🤔 And the answer is simply "ADHD". 🤷‍♀️ Anyone else feel this?

New Blog Alert!When people talk about ADHD, the conversation often centers on focus, attention, and impulsivity. As an A...
10/13/2025

New Blog Alert!

When people talk about ADHD, the conversation often centers on focus, attention, and impulsivity. As an ADHDer, a parent of ADHD children, and a professional who supports many ADHDers, I see executive functioning skills as the area where challenges show up most. These are the cognitive processes that help us “execute” tasks. Think of them like the executive of a business for your brain: they support goal setting, monitoring progress, following through, analyzing, and adjusting.
For search clarity: you may also see these challenges called “executive dysfunction” online. I use more affirming language here.

This article is an introduction to executive functioning and the eight core skills. It also kicks off a series where I will take a closer look at each skill and share strategies for people who experience challenges in that area.

Continue reading at https://www.embracethemuchness.com/blog/what-are-executive-functioning-skills-understanding-their-role-in-adhd

My youngest suggested that we make a "Jurassic Park" supper. I can only assume she saw it on YouTube.  Gotta give it to ...
10/12/2025

My youngest suggested that we make a "Jurassic Park" supper. I can only assume she saw it on YouTube. Gotta give it to her for creativity.

We gave it a try... which is better?

#1 (my nearly 8 year old) or
#2 (my husband)

Since I'm gluten-free, I ate the gf chicken bites we already had, so I did not participate.

We are celebrating Decorah Pride today!!There's nothing quite like witnessing the love, joy, resilience. and being one's...
10/11/2025

We are celebrating Decorah Pride today!!

There's nothing quite like witnessing the love, joy, resilience. and being one's true self!

One strategy to managing mail I heard long ago was "touch it once". The idea is that to prevent mail from piling up, tha...
10/07/2025

One strategy to managing mail I heard long ago was "touch it once". The idea is that to prevent mail from piling up, that you deal with whatever needs to happen immediately. Like most general organizational advice,as an ADHDer there were seeds of helpfulness in there but it simply doesn't work for me in the exact way suggested.

While I don't always take action on the mail that needs direct attention from me as this method would suggest, what I have consistently implemented is I try to open and sort my mail before I even bring it in the house.

I make 3 piles-
1- Straight to the recycling. I have 2 different spaces where I have a paper recycling I can drop this pale into on my way to my kitchen table.
2- things to keep but don't need action. These go into my hanging file folder and once a year or so get filed into the actual filing cabinet.

3- Needs action. These get left on my table as a visual cue to complete whatever is needed.

Most of my bills are on autopay and paperless, so there's generally only a few items per week that end up in pile 3.

This makes task initiation with pile 3 much easier because I don't have to start with the first step of sorting through a big giant pile.

What strategies do you use to manage mail?

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