12/03/2025
Boundaries aren’t just psychological… they’re physiological.
Every time you override your own needs to keep the peace, your nervous system pays for it.
It might show up as:
• Difficulty falling asleep
• Midday anxiety
• Digestive issues after family events
• Fatigue that rest doesn’t fix
Clear, respectful boundaries reduce your body’s stress load.
They tell your system: “I’m safe. I don’t have to stay on high alert.”
Here’s how I explain it to patients:
→ Boundaries are a form of regulation.
→ Saying no can literally support your cortisol curve.
→ It’s not about being difficult — it’s about staying well.
Comment YES if you’re going to practice setting better boundaries this holiday season!