04/01/2026
Safety isn’t just “he won’t hurt me.”�Safety is mental, emotional, physical, erotic, relational, familial, financial & MORE! (I teach it all in my safety course! )
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Feeling safe is feeling cherished, considered, loved up, nurtured, pampered, respected. It’s when your emotions are welcome, your boundaries are honoured, and your needs are not a burden.
I get it.�When I say safety is arousing, most people roll their eyes — because most people have never actually felt safe in their lives or relationships.
�Our nervous systems had to adapt and learn s-xual arousal through chaos, inconsistency, and survival.
�💔So of course we mistake anxiety for chemistry.�💔Of course we crave the people who hurt us.
💔Of course we obsess over the unavailable bad boys.
💔Of course we have hot s-x with as****es. �That was our version of love.
But this type of arousal only lasts for a little while - during the novelty period. And then it fades and we are faced with he reality - that we are not safe and never have been.
�When safety is finally present and our wounds are healed — the body relaxes, opens, and begins to trust pleasure. The nervous system calms. The ge****ls bloom. Desire feels effortless. Org-sms are easy. Our libido blossoms.
💛my C-M EASY course is where I introduce women to the concept of safety. It is a mini course where I PROVE TO YOU that safety is a direct link to female SUSTAINABLE pleasure.
Comment ✨SAFETY✨ to learn more. 🎈
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