11/21/2025
I apologize for not posting lately! Right after we came back from Orlando, I got really sick for about 2 weeks. It’s a rough virus…. Fevers, cough…. And then I got pink eye on top of that! I’m glad I’m over it and thankful the girls remain healthy!
I can’t believe we are coming up on 10 years since Norah was diagnosed. It’s a day that I wish was just a regular day… but It’s very, very complicated with so many emotions. I feel sad about Norah’s diagnosis and what she’s had to endure. I’m mad that her childhood was taken from her. I’m heartbroken about finding out more of the long term issues we will be dealing with. Some are not so big of a deal - like being short. Others are huge - like not being able to have children. I feel anxious almost all the time. I feel frustrated at the lack of research for our kids. But I also feel glad that she is still here with us. I am so thankful for that. I’m so happy at how well she’s doing with school and with her friendships. I’m thankful for all the friends and experiences we’ve had over the years. For every milestone Norah reaches, I am reminded of all our little friends who didn’t make it to that point and my heart breaks over and over again. Survivors guilt is something I deal with. We also miss Papa George so very much. His absence is felt all the time. He is without pain and in heaven, but I’m selfish and I wish he was here with us.
It’s a day where we all just feel emotionally spent. Can we skip over November 24th some year?
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November 24th is a very emotional day for our family - on November 24, 2015 Norah was diagnosed with stage 4 Neuroblastoma at the age of 2.5. Then, on November 24, 2018- Nori’s papa George walked into the arms of Jesus after a tough battle with lung cancer. To have both of these devastating events happen on the same day means that thanksgiving is always rough for our family. We grieve so much. We grieve Papa’s absence and all he’s missed in 7 years. We grieve the journey Norah has had - starting 10 years ago. We grieve for our lives that didn’t turn out as we planned or expected. We grieve for our loss and our pain. So, every year since Nori’s diagnosis, we do our best to overcome what was the darkest day in our lives. We try to bring a little bit of joy to the day by doing acts of kindness for others. Papa George was one of the kindest people I’ve ever known so we also honor him by doing these acts of kindness. Papa did them every day whether it was holding a door open for someone or giving me a big hug and telling me “thank you for being such a good mother”. ❤️The little acts of kindness meant so much.
We invite you to participate in Norah and Papa’s day of kindness with us this year! In this post I’m including a link to a card that you can print at home. On the card it explains what the day means to us and why someone would be receiving the card. When you do an act of kindness on (or around) November 24th, please give out this card. We want to share the love and hope and a little bit of sunshine ☀️
Your act of kindness does not have to be something big. It can be whatever you want! Maybe your neighbor needs help raking leaves. Offer to help and then hand them the card ☺️ Maybe you want to tip your barista or waitress a little extra - please give them a card. ☺️
Some other ideas which have been done in years past:
*Take snacks to your nearest police station or fire department
*Check out your local Ronald McDonald house wish list and take a few items to them
*Take some cookies for your teacher
*Pay for the coffee for the person in line behind you
*Put a gift card inside a box of diapers
*Find your favorite book at the library and put an encouraging note and the card inside
This year we suggest making a $10 donation in Norah’s name to any of these organizations listed below. They have directly impacted Nori in one way or another over the last 10 years:
*Donate in Norah’s name to The National Children's Cancer Society (NCCS) - NCCS has helped us with flights to and from NYC for the last 7 years!
*Donate to Give Kids the World in Orlando in Norah’s name - this is where we stayed for our Make A Wish trip!
https://www.gktw.org/help/give.php
*Band of Parents - this organization helps neuroblastoma kids at MSKCC, they have funded many of the treatments Nori has had over the years
https://www.bandofparents.org
*Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center - https://giving.mskcc.org
*Candlelighters NYC - they help turn crappy Into happy! We’ve gotten to do a lot of fun stuff with Candlelighters. They are amazing!
https://candlelightersnyc.org/CNYC/
*If you are local to us, a charity that helps rescue and house kitties can always use help!
Check out “save the kitties” on facebook
The bottom line is that no matter big or small, your act of kindness is meaningful and welcomed! We would love to hear what you have done - if you would be willing to share, please post on our page. Or you can always message us and we can share for you - anonymously if you prefer. Dont forget to use our hashtags so we can share the moment with you ☺️❤️
Thank you all so much! ❤️❤️
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