03/24/2026
Our intentions matter to God, but so do our words, actions, and behavior. When someone repeatedly appeals to their “good intentions” without seeking to understand the harm they have caused, acknowledging it, confessing their sin, and walking in repentance over time, it is wise to pay attention to that pattern and to steward and care for ourselves accordingly.
Too often, professed “good intentions” are used as an attempt to smooth over another person’s pain rather than sitting in it with humility. True humility requires us to examine our behavior honestly, asking whether our actions align with what God’s Word teaches about what is holy and what is wicked.
At times, it is true that someone did not intend to cause harm. Genuine remorse and humility will be shown in how they respond when you express your pain and in a changed trajectory of their words and actions.