
24/05/2025
The easiest way to regulate your system is another human.
The easiest way to deregulate your system is another human.
6 years ago today I was recovering from yet another miscarriage.
3 back to back miscarriages and one surgery
5 years of hormonal issues, clinical ANA levels of my immune system and then my nervous system started joining in
4 years of panic attacks on my period for a whole night of somatic horror, then my ovulation, then my system started not to feel safe in many situations: traffic, closed spaces, heights.
These are symptoms of a stressed out systemI went through it alone, tried every thing you can think of, changed 5 doctors, changed my diet, my way of living ...
I was told everything from "it's nothing" to "just go to sleep" to "you are crazy"
My body was always feeling unsafe because I was struggling alone. Be your advocate! Find the right practitioner and definitely find your people! Somatic Experiencing fellows have made me realize my system was running on empty and dedicated to others but myself!
Walk away from toxicity!
Find people that help you thrive!
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