05/08/2026
We talk about love like it's something we offer other people -- partners, kids, friends, the dog.
But the most uncomfortable, most overlooked, and most essential love is the one we extend to ourselves. And for a lot of men, that can feel foreign, selfish, bordering on narcissistic.
Here's the truth:
I can't trust myself to love anyone if I can't trust myself to keep the small promises I make to me.
The workout I said I'd do.
The margherita I said I wouldn't drink.
The five minutes of stillness.
Self-love isn't a bubble bath -- it's the daily practice of being someone you can rely on.