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In “Miss. Andrist,” Hannah tells exactly what happened—no distance, no softening. She writes from inside the silence, th...
12/18/2025

In “Miss. Andrist,” Hannah tells exactly what happened—no distance, no softening. She writes from inside the silence, the fear, and the feeling of drowning in a place where no one stepped in. Say it with your full chest, Hannah. We see you and we won’t let you drown.

Read Hannah’s truth at https://bravercollective.org/stories/miss-andrist

Bio: Hannah Varga is a passionate poet and writer whose work delves into the complexities of human emotion. Her writing is raw and deeply personal. A firm believer in the power of vulnerability and unapologetic truth, she unravels the hidden turmoil of the inner self.

In “𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐁𝐨𝐲 𝐖𝐡𝐨 𝐇𝐞𝐥𝐝 𝐌𝐲 𝐂𝐡𝐞𝐞𝐤 𝐖𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐇𝐢𝐬 𝐇𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐈𝐈,” Ariana Suits (, she/her) shares a stark, honest account of how trau...
12/16/2025

In “𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐁𝐨𝐲 𝐖𝐡𝐨 𝐇𝐞𝐥𝐝 𝐌𝐲 𝐂𝐡𝐞𝐞𝐤 𝐖𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐇𝐢𝐬 𝐇𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐈𝐈,” Ariana Suits (, she/her) shares a stark, honest account of how trauma can repeat itself across relationships. Her work names the quiet, confusing moments where harm is mistaken for intimacy—and it is a reminder to survivors that this confusion does not belong to us. 𝐈𝐭 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐟𝐚𝐮𝐥𝐭.

By naming moments where violence is framed as consent, Ariana makes space for us that often carry this confusion and hurt alone: being asked does not make harm acceptable, and love should never hurt. This kind of naming matters.

✨𝐑𝐞𝐚𝐝 𝐀𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐧𝐚’𝐬 𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐥 𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐯𝐢𝐯𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲: https://bravercollective.org/stories/boy-who-held

About the Author: Ariana Suits (she/her) has recently earned her undergraduate degree in Government and is currently working toward her Master’s in History. Recently published for the first time in an academic journal, she hopes to continue her research on Indigenous Peoples’ movements in Latin America. Ariana reminds us that success does not negate sadness or pain, nor does it necessarily heal—but happiness is still possible, in any circumstance.

Ready to shape the future of survivor support? 🙋‍♀️ Braver Collective is excited to invite applications for the 2026 Ref...
12/16/2025

Ready to shape the future of survivor support? 🙋‍♀️ Braver Collective is excited to invite applications for the 2026 Reflecting Pool, a paid, collaborative feedback forum designed to collaborate with young adult survivors and allies (ages 18-34) to help shape our platform.

Why you’ll love it:
🌟 Make a tangible difference
🤝 Collaborate with a supportive community.
💸 Earn a stipend of up to $600.
🌍 Join from anywhere!

Time Commitment:
▪️10-month contract, from March to December 2026
▪️Attend 8 online sessions (1.5 hours each)

Interested? Apply at: https://bravercollective.org/work-with-us


In “Divided Nation,” Emagene Greene (she/her) reflects on bodily autonomy in the United States and the injustice for all...
12/05/2025

In “Divided Nation,” Emagene Greene (she/her) reflects on bodily autonomy in the United States and the injustice for all who are denied agency over their own lives. Her words speak to the frustration and heartbreak of having fundamental rights dictated by those in power and the ongoing fight for liberation and justice.

“This piece was written in response to Roe v. Wade being overturned. It is dedicated to my best friend, who was deeply affected by this decision. I love you, K!”

Emagene’s poem calls for solidarity, urging women everywhere to stand hand-in-hand against oppression and antiquated systems that continue to control our bodies. It is a powerful reminder that the fight for justice is far from over.

Author Bio: Emagene Greene is studying to be an elementary school teacher at a small private university in Missouri. Aside from writing, she enjoys beading, playing the Sims 4, and petting her foster cats, even though she is allergic…

✨ Read Emagene’s story at the https://bravercollective.org/stories/divided-nation

12/04/2025

Hi, I’m Dani Carpio (.dani), CPTSD advocate, survivor, and founder of Healing and CPTSD, a global community for complex trauma survivors. I’m also a certified EFT Tapping practitioner, and I recently wrote a free resource on Braver Collective called “When Healing Hurts: Why EFT Worked for Me When EMDR Didn’t.”

Healing isn’t one-size-fits-all. For me, EMDR didn’t work. It triggered a six-month emotional flashback regression. I felt overwhelmed, unsafe in my body, and even suicidal. That’s when I turned back to a tool I already had: EFT and tapping. It didn’t magically fix everything but it gave me moments of relief. And in survival mode, those moments matter.

✨ Let’s try a quick tapping exercise together ✨

1️⃣ Side of Hand: Tap gently and say:
“Even though I feel overwhelmed, I accept myself and how I feel.”
2️⃣ Tap through these points, repeating the phrases or simply noticing your sensations:

▪️Top of Head: “I am so overwhelmed right now.”• ▪️Eyebrow: “Everything feels like a lot right now.”
▪️Side of Eye: “Of course, I feel overwhelmed. I’ve had to carry so much.”
▪️Under Eye: “It makes sense that my body is alert. It makes sense that I’m overwhelmed.”
▪️Under Nose: “I’m allowed to be overwhelmed.”▪️Under Mouth: “I don’t have to push myself to be okay.”
▪️Collarbone: “I can take this one moment at a time.”

💨 Take a deep breath in through your nose, out through your mouth. No rushing. No fixing. Just being here. Your nervous system is responding to what it has lived through. You are not doing this wrong. You are not too much.

For more support:
👉Read Dani’s full article click the link in bio
📄 Download my free tapping guide:
💛 Join the Healing & CPTSD community hub for connection and survivor-centered support .and.cptsd / healingandcptsd.com / complexdani.com

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭’𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞?“Now That I Don’t Need You” is a powerful reflection by Laurie Panther (she/her)...
12/03/2025

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭’𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞?

“Now That I Don’t Need You” is a powerful reflection by Laurie Panther (she/her) on releasing the need for the person who abused her—and finding love within herself instead.

Practicing self-compassion can feel completely inaccessible after experiencing sexual abuse. Loving ourselves can feel harder than sitting with pain because pain feels familiar, and it takes ongoing, intentional effort to nurture that love until it grows.

✨ Comment 𝐒𝐄𝐋𝐅 𝐋𝐎𝐕𝐄 if you need a reminder that you are worthy of love—especially your own.

💛 What’s one way you’ve been practicing self-love lately? Share with us so we, as a survivor community, can learn and grow together.

✨ 𝐑𝐞𝐚𝐝 𝐋𝐚𝐮𝐫𝐢𝐞’𝐬 𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐥 𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐯𝐢𝐯𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲 𝐚𝐭 https://bravercollective.org/stories/now-that-i-dont-need-you

𝐀𝐮𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐫 𝐁𝐢𝐨: I am the last person of my seven-member family of origin. The abuse of all and every possible nature was too toxic for survival. Except I managed it through truth-telling. And I continue.

We are living proof. Our stories, in their many forms, show the infinite shapes and possibilities of healing. These stor...
12/02/2025

We are living proof. Our stories, in their many forms, show the infinite shapes and possibilities of healing.

These stories can help us slow down and make meaning of our own experiences. They might just move us to raise our own voices, to reach toward each other, and create lasting change in the�world together.

From the first story shared to the conversations and healing it sparks, the impact is real for everyone in our community:

💬 “They didn’t just publish my story. They pulled up a chair, listened, and said something I didn’t know I needed to hear for over a decade: You’re not alone.”
💬 “Sharing my story has been incredible… all around the outpouring of love and support has been remarkable!”
💬 “I’m honored that my writing is published on a platform for survivors. It means so much to me.”
💬 “I hope my story reaches as far as it can to give hope to other survivors.”

This , join us in supporting survivor stories, resources, and a community that helps survivors continue healing—together, across the U.S. and beyond.

Click to donate 💜 https://bravercollective.org/donate

Society assumes men don’t get assaulted, that it’s rare. But it does happen — and the stigma surrounding male sexual abu...
11/24/2025

Society assumes men don’t get assaulted, that it’s rare. But it does happen — and the stigma surrounding male sexual abuse can make the path to healing feel heavier. Sometimes the silence itself can feel just as heavy as the trauma itself.

As male survivors, we carry fear, shame, and isolation. In “The Long Walk Home” by David Cleofas Avila we’re reminded that the long walk isn’t simply a physical journey. It’s the weight of processing what happened, reclaiming safety, and finding the strength to keep moving forward, step by step.

Read the full story → link in bio at bravercollective.org

About the author:
David Cleofas Avila is a former Peer Support Specialist with a B.A. in Psychology from Sonoma State University. Having experienced psychosis as a teen and later diagnosed with schizophrenia, David writes and creates art and music to navigate the sequelae of life and share his journey with others.

11/22/2025

Hi, 👋🏻 my name is 𝐌𝐢𝐲𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐚 .clements and I am part of Braver Collective’s Reflecting Pool, a group of survivors helping to shape the tools and resources for survivors at Braver Collective.

As a survivor, I’ve found that spirituality and grounding have been central to my healing journey. Reconnecting with something bigger than myself—through faith, community, or personal reflection—has helped me feel anchored in both my personal life and my work supporting others.

I want to help hold space for anyone needing a place to be real and honest about where they are in their healing journey. It’s not always easy, but finding connection and community has made a huge difference for me.

Today, I’m sharing a simple grounding exercise you can do anywhere:

🌿 Body Scan for Grounding

1️⃣ Find a comfortable position—sitting, standing, eyes open or closed.

2️⃣ Take deep breaths and bring your attention to your feet, slowly moving upward: ankles → calves → knees → thighs → torso → arms → shoulders → head

3️⃣ Notice any areas of tension or discomfort without judgment. Simply observe what feels warm, uncomfortable, or good—there’s no right way to do this.

4️⃣ Take a few extra deep breaths, honoring the places that need TLC.

This exercise is all about tuning into your body, noticing what’s present, and giving yourself a moment of care.

For more tools on spirituality, grounding, and reconnecting with your higher self, check out “Spirituality and Grounding: Reconnecting with Your Higher Self” at bravercollective.org/resources (or click the link in bio) ✨

𝐌𝐢𝐲𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐚 𝐂𝐥𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬-𝐖𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐢𝐚𝐦𝐬𝐨𝐧 (she/her) | Survivor & Associate Therapist blending EMDR, somatic healing, and faith-rooted grounding into survivor support.

11/21/2025

Hi, I’m Andy Quintana Vendrell 💛

I’m a Reflector for Braver Collective’s Reflecting Pool. I’m a creative coach and working towards being a licensed social worker.

Frankly this is the type of resource I wish I had when I needed it but I didn’t and I turned to creativity as a method of healing.

Creativity—and dance especially—has always been a huge part of my healing as a survivor. For a long time, being in my body felt overwhelming. Dance asked me to be present, to feel, to move with myself instead of away from myself. Little by little, I found acceptance, love, and safety in my own body again. And that was incredibly empowering.

One thing I’ve learned as a therapist and coach is this:
the more we heal, the more we return to creativity.
Movement becomes a possibility again.

So today, I’m sharing a few simple practices you can try if you’re exploring touch, grounding, or reconnecting with your body:

✨ The Butterfly Hug — cross your arms gently over your chest and tap side to side. Slow, rhythmic, soothing.

✨ Gentle Face Washing — lovingly trace your hands over your face like warm water; soften your jaw, cheeks, and temples.

✨ Side-to-Side Dance Flow — shift your weight, let your arms melt and sweep across your body, and explore self-touch through soft, intuitive movement.
Move at your pace. Stop if anything doesn’t feel right.
And remember—your body deserves tenderness, safety, and joy. 💛

The recent 2025 Title IX rollbacks have changed what protections survivors have on campus — from live hearings to reduce...
11/19/2025

The recent 2025 Title IX rollbacks have changed what protections survivors have on campus — from live hearings to reduced LGBTQIA+ safeguards.

Navigating these changes can feel overwhelming, but you are not alone.

Kenyora Lenair Johnson () MSW — CEO of — breaks it down in our newest resource article, “Navigating Campus Sexual Violence: Understanding Title IX, Your Rights, and the Power of Collective Healing.”

This guide explains:
1️⃣ How Title IX reporting works and what accommodations you can request
2️⃣ Options for prioritizing your healing without filing a formal complaint
3️⃣ Off-campus and legal pathways if your school process feels unsafe

✨ Remember: “You get to decide what healing looks like. You get to take your time. You deserve spaces that affirm your voice, your truth, and your pace.” - Kenyora Lenair Johnson

💜 Explore survivor stories, free resources, and Kenyora’s full article → link in bio

🤝 Start here for additional support:
(EROC) – survivor support + policy advocacy
/ Know Your IX: Guides for navigating Title IX and understanding your rights.
– state-level policy action
– LGBTQIA+ youth support
– student athlete initiatives
– policy and advocacy
– legal resources

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