01/28/2023
From Kari Star's Amazing Adventures in Cosmic Mystery ~
TROUBLE IN PARADISE
I had a partner today that was overly anxious to get started and to get to what he would consider "the good stuff". He was making our embrace all about his turn-on.
Although he was barely moving, it was taking all my attention away from the heart connection and my focus went to his desire.
This is absolutely what does not work. The man must remain still and quiet and pulling on her heart to get her to focus her mind deep into his heart and feel this connection. He must be there with her, feeling it while appreciating and desiring her energy.
This process is always quiet and still. And with the strength in his arms, he pulls her deep into his chest. If his mind wanders down to his ge****ls, she's lost. Then it's about him. The genie goes back in the bottle.
His focus and imagination must be in her heart inviting it into his and appreciating her with everything he's got.
So as he was lost in his turn on, I was left cold. This is when the female has to really stand for herself. You can't let it just go on.
So I corrected him and got him to be still and we just laid there in silence and went really deep.
I had some minor upset that had been lingering in my mind that hindered me from flowing into the experience easily.
When you're really good at sensing this Heart connection, and it's easier than you think, you have to recognize when it's not working and be responsible for correcting it, even if it's every time for a year! Yup. For some, old habits are hard to change.
This is when the couple can stop and make adjustments or communicate if needed. It wasn't necessary for me to say anything about my minor upsets. As soon as he became still and settled into my heart, everything smoothed over easily as we entered the fifth dimensional unconditional love.
This led to a lovely, fully open, erotic and ecstatic experience.
Okay it was more like absolutely delicious!
The truth is, once you learn this technique, you still need to practice working it to make sure you always get the full effect. If you back down, you lose! The only one that's going to make sure that the Goddess of Ecstasy emerges from her Genie bottle is actually the woman who is in charge of the process. She has to let him know what is missing when it's not working. And it is she that will give him the cues when she is satiated.
This is why it's absolutely imperative to educate the females. They prefer the males to know how to do it, but the females need to know how their own process works during this period of relearning and remembering this foundation for human relationship.
Deep, merging, magnetic, radiant heart connection. You cannot back down or accept a substitution. There is none! If your heart is not saying"I love you", then you must make adjustments! There are three steps total and each one is imperative in the process of a woman going into full feminine receptive mode!
That is your full feminine essence of polarity that must be brought back to the world. And you are responsible for your part!
So you are saving the world and achieving your highest pleasure.
Not bad!
-Cosmic Kari Star
