Bloom Beyond the Couch

09/18/2025

✨ The way we love is revolutionary. ✨

Love isn’t only romantic, it’s in the gentle laughter of friends, the meals we share, the care we pour into community, and the soft notes we write to ourselves when no one is watching.

This carousel is your reminder that collective love is nourishment, platonic intimacy is powerful, and every small act of care plants seeds of healing. 🌱 Together, we can grow a softer world.

💾 Save this post for the next quiet moment you need a reminder that you are not alone.
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09/16/2025

The leaves aren’t the only ones letting go.
Sometimes our nervous systems need a place to land too.

If this season feels tender… if rest feels harder than hustle… this is your gentle permission slip to do things differently.

I wrote a guide for the ones who crave softness but struggle to slow down.
Six cozy, trauma-informed rituals for autumn to practice.

🌿 Warm drinks as nervous system anchors
📝 Journals that don’t demand poetry
🪺 Sensory nests that say “you’re safe here”
🍂 Walks that bring you back into your body
🧘🏾‍♀️ Body scans that say “I’m still here”
🍲 Nourishment as a sacred act of care

May this post feel like a weighted blanket for your inner world.

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Go beyond aesthetics with trauma-informed cozy fall self-care. This offers 6 gentle rituals to help you feel safe and at home in your body.

09/15/2025

🧶 Healing doesn’t mean forgetting who you were. It means learning to feel safe being who you are, again.

Part II of our cozy psychoeducation series is live:
🌸 Healing Attachment Wounds in the Therapeutic Space.

This post is a gentle guide to the many paths that lead us home from the insight of relational therapy to the deep wisdom of the body. If Part I was the map, this is the soft invitation to take your first step.

In this cozy (and evidence-based!) exploration, we’ll walk through:

🪞Psychodynamic & Object Relations
🪶 Schema Therapy
💞 Emotionally Focused Therapy
🧘🏽‍♀️ Somatic Experiencing & AEDP
✨ Cozy journaling + connection rituals

Because attachment isn’t a life sentence.
It’s a thread that can be rewoven with care. 💕

Read the full post at Bloom Beyond the Couch 🌸

This gentle guide explores the many paths to healing attachment wounds. We journey through relational therapies that honor your story and somatic practices that listen to your body’s wisdom. Discover how creating new experiences of safety in therapy can help you finally come home to yourself.

09/12/2025

🌿 Beyond Awareness: The Liberatory Consciousness Framework in Social Work & Mental Health 🌿

So many of us enter social work and mental health with the deepest intentions: to heal, empower, and support. But here’s the paradox — without a critical and intentional framework, even our most well-meaning efforts can unintentionally uphold the very systems of racism, sexism, ableism, and classism we aim to dismantle.

That’s why I’m writing a new blog series on the Liberatory Consciousness Framework (LCF), developed by Dr. Barbara J. Love. It’s a roadmap that helps us move:

👉🏽 from passive awareness to intentional action
👉🏽 from repeating harmful patterns to cultivating systemic change
👉🏽from working in isolation to building accountability and allyship

This first post introduces the paradox of the helping professions, explores how socialization shapes practice, and defines what it means to live with a liberatory consciousness in our daily decisions, policies, and clinical care. ✨

If you’re a social worker, therapist, student, or simply someone committed to justice and healing, this series is for you. Together, we can weave awareness, analysis, action, and accountability into our professional and collective lives. 🌸

📖 Read Part 1 here!

💬 After reading, I’d love to hear: What does liberatory consciousness mean to you in your own work or life?

Feeling the paradox of your work? Discover the Liberatory Consciousness Framework, a guide to dismantling systemic harm with action and care.

09/12/2025

🌼 You’re not lazy. You’re learning how to live aligned.

This cozy energy map was created for neurodivergent, chronically tired, and tender-hearted folks who are constantly told to "push through" — even when they're running on empty.

Instead of shame and hustle, this carousel invites you to pause, reflect, and reclaim your energy softly.

Inside this cozy nervous system guide, you’ll explore:
✨ The myth of productivity
🌿 Spoon theory & burnout cycles
💤 Rest as a strategy, not a reward
💖 Saying no without guilt
⚡ Creative energy spikes (ADHD & autistic joy!)

Every step is valid. Even the quiet ones.
Save this cozy energy map for the days when you feel like you have nothing left. Because that’s when you need it most.

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09/10/2025

Time to get cozy on the couch! 🛋️ Our new deep dive for "The Arcana of Growth" is here, and we're exploring one of the most powerful themes in Persona 4 Golden: the courageous, messy journey of forging the self.

We sit with Kanji, Naoto, and Teddie, exploring their battles with gender norms, imposter syndrome, and finding a reason to exist. It’s a deep, empathetic look at what it means to become who you truly are. ✨

Read the full post (link in bio!) and then come back to tell us in the comments: Which of these three beautiful souls’ stories resonated with you the most? ❤️

Explore identity in P4G's most beloved characters. A deep dive into the messy, courageous, and profound process of Forging the Self.

09/09/2025

✨ We’re back & blooming ✨
After our restorative pause, it feels so right to return with The September Shift: 5 Gentle Rituals to Welcome Autumn with Ease. 🍂

From journaling your summer story to planting a seed of intention, these rituals will help you feel grounded, reflective, and cozy as the seasons change.

🌿 Read the full post: www.livebeyondbloom.com
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09/08/2025

✨ The September Shift is here and Bloom Beyond the Couch is back✨

As summer softens into autumn, many of us feel that bittersweet mix of nostalgia and anticipation. Instead of letting the season sweep by, what if you welcomed it with intention?

“The September Shift: 5 Gentle Rituals to Welcome Autumn with Ease” 🍁

From journaling your summer story to creating cozy sensory swaps and planting a seed of intention, these rituals are designed to help you feel grounded, peaceful, and connected during the seasonal transition. 🌿

🕯️ Read the full post here

Embrace the September shift with 5 gentle rituals to welcome autumn, helping you find peace, gratitude, and ease in the new season.

08/29/2025

✨ Taking a Gentle Pause ✨

Sometimes the kindest thing we can do for ourselves and our creativity is to slow down. 🌿 Over the past couple of weeks, I realized that true creativity doesn’t bloom from rushing; it grows from rest, presence, and mindful pacing. That’s why I’m taking a short pause to refill my cup and protect the spark that fuels this community. 💫

While I’m away, the library here at Bloom Beyond the Couch is always open 📖 (www.livebeyondbloom.com). You can revisit your favorite reflections, explore cozy resources, or even share a post with someone who might need a soft place to land. Every corner of this space was created with care, and I hope it continues to bring you gentleness while I step back.

I’ll be back with a full heart on September 8th with new writing, cozy rituals, and thoughtful insights to share. Until then, may you find your own moments of rest, renewal, and quiet joy. 🌙💕

Save this for when you need a reminder that rest is productive too.

08/28/2025

✨ Taking a Gentle Pause ✨

You may have noticed things have been a little quiet here lately. After juggling a few personal and professional matters, I realized something important: true creativity blooms from rest, not from rushing. 🌿

That’s why I’m taking a short, restorative break — and I’ll be back with new blog posts and cozy content on September 8th. 💌

In the meantime, the library is always open. You can revisit favorite reflections on healing, explore trauma-informed resources, or curl up with a gentle reminder from Bloom Beyond the Couch. Every corner of this space was created with care for you to enjoy.

If a post here has ever been meaningful to you, maybe you could even share it with a friend who could use a soft place to land. 🌸

Until we meet again, I hope you find little moments of gentleness in your own rhythms and routines. ✨

📖 Read the full post here

Bloom Beyond the Couch is taking a gentle pause. Read our personal update on rest, pacing, and creative well-being. See you Sept 8!

08/19/2025

🌸 Boundaries aren’t about controlling others. They’re about protecting your peace. 💛

When we set boundaries, we’re not creating walls. We’re opening gentle gates, tending to our own garden, and walking forward with self-trust. ✨

This carousel is for:
🌼 Anyone who feels guilty after setting boundaries
🌼 Women, femmes & neurodivergent folks tired of overexplaining
🌼 Sensitive souls who crave clarity over chaos

💡 The benefit? Boundaries free you from second-guessing. They show you that guilt often isn’t guilt at all, it’s clarity unfolding. 🌙

Save this for the next time someone makes you doubt yourself for doing what was always necessary. 💾

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08/18/2025

Softness isn’t weakness. It’s power in a different form.

We’ve been taught that softness means being too sensitive, too emotional, too fragile.
But what if softness could also mean:

💪 Rebuilding your bike and your boundaries
🌸 Crying and showing up again
🧸 Being loud, assertive, and deeply kind
🌈 Holding space in chaos
💭 Protecting your heart without hardening it

✨ Softness is strength, and it belongs to everyone.

This cozy, inclusive carousel is for:

Women and femmes reclaiming their gentleness

Neurodivergent folks tired of being called “too much”

LGBTQ+ souls and trans joy

People of color whose softness has been policed

The fierce ones who are learning to feel again 💕

Save this post if you’ve ever felt like you had to choose between strength and tenderness.
And tag someone rewriting the rules of what softness can be 💖