Brenda’s end of life care

Brenda’s end of life care A death doula, is a person who assists in the dying process. I can offer comfort,support,and companionship for the dying person and their family.

It is a role to help families cope with death through recognizing it as a natural and important part of life. A death doula, is a person who assists in the dying process, much like a midwife or doula does with the birthing process. Doulas are hired by patients or family members when a terminal diagnosis is given and will stay with that person and their family through their death and beyond to give bereavement services to the family

11/15/2025
09/11/2025

The Gray Space of Grief

It’s not the moment they died.
It’s not the funeral.
It’s not the “I’m so sorry” texts or the casseroles dropped at your door.

It’s everything after that.

It’s the part no one warns you about—the gray space of grief.
Where the world keeps moving, but you’re suspended.
Not fully in the past. Not fully in the future.
Just… here. In between.

Where you forget what joy used to feel like.
Where smiles feel foreign and guilt creeps in if you catch yourself laughing.
Where people assume you’re “doing better” because you showed up to work or answered a text.

But inside?
You’re lost.
Not broken exactly. Just… altered.
Like a radio slightly out of tune.
Like a photo that won’t come into focus.

The gray space is quiet.
But not peaceful.
It’s the space where grief settles when the world stops watching.

And if you’re in it—
You’re not alone.
You’re not doing it wrong.
You’re surviving the part no one talks about.

And one day, color might return.
But for now, it’s okay to sit in the gray.

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