12/27/2025
As a pediatric OT, I don’t (and can’t) diagnose- but I can often spot early indicators of social differences, even in babies...the kids who may get diagnoses when a little older.
Here’s what I look for (“typical” social skills)-
• Shared enjoyment & reciprocation: Like looking at something and then back at you to share in that experience, smiling back, playing peek-a-boo, taking turns with vocalizations, gestures, or facial expressions. It’s not just about “eye contact,” but whether gaze is used to share experiences or check in with caregivers. Like when I look at a book and then look at you and smile.
• Early gesture development: Reaching to be picked up, pointing, waving, or showing objects.
• Regulation + engagement: Ability to stay regulated and calm enough to interact, shift attention, and participate with others.
• Play patterns: Play that is people-oriented, varied, exploratory, and flexible.
If your kiddo’s interactions don’t look like these, that’s okay! The lack of these early patterns don’t mean something is “wrong,” but they can tell us how a child experiences and connects with the world- and when extra support might help.