05/02/2026
Every parent wants their child writing letters. Almost no one asks what has to happen first.
Here's the sequence most people skip entirely:
The grip comes first. Not the pencil hold you correct after the fact the hand orientation, the finger placement, the wrist position that makes controlled movement possible at all.
Then comes the line. Straight, diagonal, curved the fundamental strokes that every single letter in the alphabet is built from.
Then, and only then, comes the letter.
Skip the grip and you build handwriting on a fault line. It will hold until the demands increase. And then it won't.
Build it right from the beginning. Your child's hand is worth the patience. 🙏🏻