07/15/2025
đ âIf I stop being this way⌠will I still be a good person?â
If youâve always been the helperâŚ
If you feel responsible for how others feelâŚ
If you struggle to say no without guiltâŚ
Youâre not alone.
And youâre not broken.
This is the fifth post in our 10-part series on codependency, a pattern rooted in care but often tangled up with fear, guilt, and self-abandonment.
At Tranquil Hearts Therapy, we want you to know:
đ You can heal from codependency without becoming hard, cold, or selfish
đ You can stay compassionate and kind without sacrificing yourself
đ You can be loving and have boundaries
⨠Healing isnât about giving less love. Itâs about learning how to include yourself in the love you so freely give to others.
In therapy, we gently help you:
â¤ď¸ Recognize your needs without shame
đ Set boundaries without guilt
đŁď¸ Speak your truth without fear
đą Grow your capacity for self-compassion
You donât have to keep overextending, overgiving, or apologizing for having needs. You deserve rest. You deserve peace. You deserve to come home to yourself, too.
đ Serving Fort Myers, Cape Coral, and Estero
đ Call or text us at (754) 666-3004 to start your healing journey.
Because you are not too much. You are just learning to be enough for yourself.
Worried that healing codependency means becoming selfish or distant? Learn how to stay kind and boundaried with help from Tranquil Hearts Therapy in Fort Myers, Cape Coral, and Estero.