Cecilia C. Oaks Counseling

12/22/2025

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Without further ado, I give y'all ny Christmas 🎄 Dubstep Playlist.

Now, why am I sharing these heavy beats? Because it's good for dopamine deficiency.

Stay festive ✨️ and enjoy 😉

12/22/2025

Welcome to the human condition.

I'm about to post some stories.

Let me take some breaths.

12/22/2025

Imma share this again.

J.W.T- I know you're following my business socials. How? YOUR comment on the golden child.

Brother, I can't ever repay you. You testified against OUR mother. You explained why.

Because, (and bro, correct me if I'm wrong) you knew that both my parents had chaos, yet you knew my father (and his parents) would see me through.

You testified in court against our mother.

I can never repay you for that.

Daddy (ultimately OUR Daddy) told me about you coming by and he told you of my college experience and goals.

Daddy said you were so proud of me.

Johnnie (even the other three), I appreciate you 🙏 more than you could ever know.

I truly appreciate you.

12/22/2025

SO MANY post get denied. Fair, it's boosting. And I am a whole issue with some things.

Y'all, I promise on MY FATHE'S grave- I am NOT a bot...

12/21/2025

Just to make a point.

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"Good Enough"

Under your spell again
I can't say no to you
Crave my heart and it's bleeding in your hand
I can't say no to you

Shouldn't let you torture me so sweetly
Now I can't let go of this dream
I can't breathe but I feel

Good enough
I feel good enough for you

Drink up sweet decadence
I can't say no to you
And I've completely lost myself, and I don't mind
I can't say no to you

Shouldn't let you conquer me completely
Now I can't let go of this dream
Can't believe that I feel

Good enough
I feel good enough
Its been such a long time coming, but I feel good

And I'm still waiting for the rain to fall
Pour real life down on me
'Cause I can't hold on to anything this good enough
Am I good enough for you to love me too?

So take care what you ask of me
'Cause I can't say no

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There are avenues to take.

Welcome to the human s**t show.

Heeey ✌️🙌👌

12/21/2025

Look. JUST look at the faces. A narcissistic family in motion.

I didn't ask for this. Neither did they.

Why??

12/21/2025

Y'all, it seems there are so many topics I can't speak on regarding personal experience via an Ad.

So, in a nutshell, my parents landed themselves in a whole situation with me. Mainly my mom, tho.

This post was solely meant to focus on the developmental needs of the brand new humans.

However, I tried to boost and it was denied. I don't find it political... maybe I'm wrong.

12/21/2025

I mean, I can't boost this information. It's too political, apparently.

Disgusting, y'all stay aware.

I hate it here.

12/21/2025

12/21/2025

As I am trudging through paperwork, I get a text. I'm taking a short break to share with y'all. This is fuel for the therapist soul.

I love my clients! Thank y'all for allowing me the opportunity (privilege) of working with you or your children. This stuff makes my day.

For context, me and this kiddo go hard an Uno (and Connect 4). I happened upon a FB reel that featured this game. I was like, "Oh!" Of course I had to share with this family.

12/20/2025

Meet the golden child.

Roles of Narcissistic Families

1. The Narcissist (The Center)

The dominant figure whose ego dictates the family reality. Uses triangulation and gaslighting to maintain control.

2. The Enabler (The Caretaker)

Protects the Narcissist from consequences and pressures others to "not upset" them to keep the peace.

3. The Golden Child (The Trophy)

The favorite who reflects well on the parent. Their value is tied to performance and compliance.

4. The Scapegoat (The Truth-Teller)

Blamed for all family problems. Often the most resilient and the first to break the cycle.

5. The Lost Child (The Ghost)

Tries to stay invisible to avoid drama. Often suffers from extreme neglect and social withdrawal.

6. The Mascot (The Distractor)

Uses humor or charm to diffuse tension and distract from volatility.

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Core Concept: Entitlement
Entitlement is the root of the system. The Narcissist believes they have all the rights, while others have all the responsibilities. Children are viewed as utilities or extensions of the parent.

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External Validation & The Façade
The family operates like a brand.

• The Billboard: Golden Child (shows success).

• The Secret: Scapegoat (hidden or smeared to protect the image).

• The PR Agent: Enabler (maintains the public "perfect" image).

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Strategies & Survival
• Grey Rocking: Becoming as boring and unreactive as a grey rock to cut off the "narcissistic supply."

• Smear Campaign: The Narcissist's attempt to destroy a person's reputation when they lose control over them.

• Flying Monkeys: Third parties recruited by the Narcissist to guilt-trip or gather information on the target.

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Reliable Sources
• DSM-5-TR: Defines NPD traits like grandiosity and entitlement.

• Donaldson-Pressman: Established the family-as-system model.

• Brummelman (2015): Research on how overvaluation creates narcissistic traits.

12/20/2025

Y'all. I swear I'm not a bot. DM me or comment and ask some questions. I, a real human, will respond.

Again, Y'ALL MEN PLAY TOO MUCH.

By ALL means, keep proving my point AND the stats.

Y'all stay woke ✨️ I hate it here.