02/05/2026
Your nervous system is literally running the show behind the scenes 🧠✨
Think of it like this ~ You’ve got two main modes.
Your sympathetic nervous system is the gas pedal (fight/flight/freeze) and your parasympathetic is the brake (rest/digest/heal).
When you’re regulated, you can flow between them naturally depending on what life throws at you.
But when you’re dysregulated you’re either stuck with your foot on the gas (anxiety, hypervigilance, racing thoughts) or you’ve completely stalled out (shutdown, numbness, exhaustion).
Sometimes you’re ping-ponging between both.
Regulation isn’t about being calm 24/7. It’s about having flexibility. Being able to ramp up when you need energy and come back down when it’s time to rest.
Some things that actually help: cold water on your face, humming or singing, moving your body, connecting with safe people, deep belly breaths, or even just naming what you’re feeling out loud.
You’re not broken if your nervous system feels chaotic right now. It’s doing exactly what it learned to do to keep you safe. Healing is just teaching it that safety can exist too 💙