04/27/2026
Humans are carry mammals meaning human newborns are meant to be held, transported, and physically close most of the time-not sitting in a nest.
Your baby is not doing anything wrong and are not forming bad habits. This is temporary and developmentally normal.
It’s ok for you or someone else to hold them A LOT! I know how hard it can be.
Enlist friends and family or a postpartum doula to help. Wear your baby. Lower your expectations Maybe part of the reason newborns are like this is because is forces the birthing person to rest 😉