Raine’s Realm

Raine’s Realm Your new favorite pink haired Astro educator, here to provide you with the cheat sheet to the stars!

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05/25/2026

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This is your friendly reminder that magic can be in everything you do! Glamour magic with your hair and makeup. Protecti...
05/23/2026

This is your friendly reminder that magic can be in everything you do! Glamour magic with your hair and makeup. Protection magic with your jewelry. Sigils drawn on your skin with lotion. Putting cinnamon in your coffee for extra luck. Carrying a bay leaf in your wallet for manifesting money. It’s all about INTENT!

Happy Solar return to me! I got to spent the entire morning with my kiddos at school for parents day 🩷🩷
05/08/2026

Happy Solar return to me! I got to spent the entire morning with my kiddos at school for parents day 🩷🩷

Where is Pluto in your chart??This Pluto Retrograde is in my 1H squaring my natal Moon, Jupiter, AND Lilith 🥲 The amount...
05/06/2026

Where is Pluto in your chart??

This Pluto Retrograde is in my 1H squaring my natal Moon, Jupiter, AND Lilith 🥲 The amount of mother wound work I’ve been doing is very on brand 😅

(Also let’s ignore the bad handwriting and potential spelling errors 😬)

One part about shadow work no one tells you is actually acknowledging how you’re not always the victim and CHANGING. And...
05/05/2026

One part about shadow work no one tells you is actually acknowledging how you’re not always the victim and CHANGING. And this is in NO way victim blaming so stay with me.

So what is shadow work? Shadow work is exploring your “shadow” self, right. Learning to uncover repressed emotions and truly feel them. But this also include HEALING those parts. You can’t just acknowledge that you can be manipulative or even possibly abusive and move along like you’re healed. No, you have to put in the time and effort to retrain your brain.

Take anxious attachments for example. This is something that takes time and time and time to heal. You can’t just acknowledge that you have a constant need for reassurance that might push people away without also actively work on not needing outside validation to know things are safe or okay. You have to actually accept that you can be “annoying” to some people, (the WRONG people btw no one should think your reassurance is annoying!)

What I’m getting at is that no one actually tells you how to fix the anxious attachment or how to fix the explosive anger once you figure out the root. And it’s SO HARD to look in that mirror and realize all the ways you’ve been sabotaging yourself, and all the opportunities you’ve missed or messed up because of it too. But the key is to not sit there and beat yourself up or guilt trip yourself into depression! No! How can you LEARN from those experiences? How can you recognize where and why you’re triggered? Getting to the root is only the beginning.

05/01/2026

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I had a realization in therapy today… and it’s kind of long so strap in 😬 (pic so post doesn’t get lost!) So with my bir...
04/30/2026

I had a realization in therapy today… and it’s kind of long so strap in 😬 (pic so post doesn’t get lost!)

So with my birthday the Friday right before Mother’s Day, and loosing 2 of my grandmas in 2 years who’s birthday’s are also close to mine, I’ve been SAD to keep it short.

But with that being said, i want to talk about how this is showing up for me as generational trauma and cycles, and specifically how it impacts in my daughter!

Dating back further than I can remember, on any side of my family, women have been shown and expressed love through abuse and control. Love has ALWAYS been conditional. And it NEVER lasts, so don’t get comfortable.

So this obviously continued with me not being shown love in a way that was healthy or supportive, and seeking validation from others. And because love already looked chaotic and unstable, the people who presented those traits MUST’VE loved me… Add in the lingering feeling that good things never last, and I’m trying everything I can to make “love” stay.

But with my daughter I was able to make a difference… and THIS is where my realization was!

Yes, she has grown up seeing me accept abuse, but she has also never gone a second without knowing that her mother loves her.
Love is not conditional for her!
Love does not hurt her!
Love does not make her cry!
Love is safe and doesn’t go away because she did something minuscule!

Then include seeing her own mother walk away from abuse from not only family, but men who just “loved her too much.”

My daughter is the first in our family to know what true unconditional love looks like from her mother. And I can only hope that as she grows, she doesn’t accept less than what she’s been shown and given by me! Because only then will we break those cycles!

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