12/22/2025
Motherhood changes you more than adolescence.
Most mothers aren’t told that.
So when things feel unfamiliar—emotionally, relationally, even in your sense of self—it can be unsettling.
There’s a name for this transition: matrescence.
It’s the deep shift that happens as you become a mother. And it’s bigger than we’re often prepared for.
When we don’t have language for what’s happening, it’s easy to wonder if something is wrong.
When we do name it—the joy, the grief, the confusion, the growth—it starts to feel less lonely.
This is why I talk about matrescence at Baby and Me.
Because naming these changes helps mothers feel seen, eases self-judgment, and supports deeper connection with their babies.
Nothing is wrong with you.
Motherhood is changing you—and support should change with you.