Dr. Andrew J. Bauman

12/17/2025

The plight of many women who are married to an insecure man.

12/17/2025

12/17/2025

12/16/2025

Abuse breaks the marriage covenant. Divorce frees God's child from being held captive against God's will. Far too many abuse victims are guilted, shamed, and bullied into believing they are the sinner and the abuser is the victim for choosing to save their life, but the word of God, rightly divided, has something to say about that.

The bible does not command or obligate an injured spouse - mentally, emotionally, or physically, to stay in bo***ge, separate without divorce, reconcile with an abuser, or remain unmarried.

In this unprecedented Facebook live, my guests and I will address this topic from every angle and put to rest any notion that God's word condemns divorce on the grounds of marital abuse - physical, mental, or emotional, requires separation "without divorce" or prohibits remarriage after divorce from a pathologically destructive, depraved, and covenant-breaking spouse.

Join us on Thursday, December 18th, at 8:30 pm EST/7:30 pm CST/5:20 pm PST right here on my page for this life-changing Facebook Live event. Note: This is a free worldwide broadcast via Facebook Live. To watch, just visit my page at that time and tune in.

The event will be recorded and available to rewatch on my page following the event.

12/16/2025

12/16/2025

12/16/2025

Join me, Patrick Weaver, and other great guests to discuss Faith, Divorce, and Freedom for Abuse Victims. Mark your calendars, this Thursday night, 8:30pm EST

12/16/2025

12/16/2025

Men, women feel used and know when they are being treated like an object, pair that with the lack of emotional connection, and the s*x is often terrible for them. Healthy women—who have spent years healing from objectification, purity culture, and patriarchy of our society —can feel that disconnection instantly and no longer want to be associated with their own annihilation.

Healthy s*xuality isn’t about frequency; it’s about safety. If men can focus on the safety of their partner rather than just being selfish with their own pleasure, then couples can learn much more about what a healthy s*xual relationship is. A man rooted in his body, emotionally grounded, and kind is a wise adult. They have done the inner work to heal the wounded boy and address his adaptive adolescent parts. Many times, the partners of these secure men are then drawn towards them, rather than having to set further boundaries with them.

12/15/2025

On Therapeutic Story-work:

Story work is about identifying themes and moments in your life from utero to now that have marked you. Telling the truth of your story brings clarity to your present-day life and impacts how your future is shaped. Unprocessed trauma is always reenacted in your present-day relationships.

Healing your story starts with becoming a student of your story. We must face our stories boldly, no matter how old they are, or how old we are. It's important to note that we cannot change the facts of our stories (and that is never the goal), but when we engage from a place of curiosity about the characters, themes, scenes, and particulars of our stories, we can change the meaning they hold for us. Through the work of engaging our own story, we can change which themes we are most loyal to.

12/15/2025

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