03/13/2023
Question: Do your feel your parter is a safe space for you? Can you talk to them unfiltered about anything? When you're in trouble, are they the first person you consider contacting?
If not, here are 6 ways to create that space in your relationship!!
1. Practice active listening. Active listening is an integral part of any relationship. To practice active listening, carefully listen to what your partner is communicating, maintain eye contact, and ask questions. Openly receiving what they are saying will make them feel safe speaking to you in the future.
2. Be transparent. Being open and honest with each other is a crucial way to build emotional safety. This ensures you maintain an open line of communication so that your partner feels like you’re not hiding anything from them, and vice versa. Transparency can establish trust in your relationship and allow you to show the people in your life your true self.
3. Be nonjudgmental. Give your partner the benefit of the doubt and avoid judging them for what they say or do, name-calling, and ascribing bad intentions to their actions. Show empathy during disagreements to build a relationship rooted in compassion, where you have a safe environment to express your insecurities and doubts with each other.
4. Show kindness toward your partner. Being more intentional with how you treat each other—such as expressing gratitude, words of affirmation, acts of service, and physical affection—can help foster a more loving relationship.
5. Set and respect boundaries. Setting boundaries is a way to practice self-care. Setting and respecting each other’s boundaries can help build trust, emotional security, and a sense of safety in a partnership.
6. Seek couples therapy. If you are having trouble establishing emotional safety on your own with your partner, going to couples therapy with your partner can be helpful.
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