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01/12/2025

To those who fear falling out of love and to all the singles still waiting for their person… 💕

Know that your heart is still on its journey. 🤗

Healing, growth, and love will come when the time is right and you have done the preparation work. 💜

Be gentle with yourself, you’re not alone in this. 🥰

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11/13/2024

Ever been on a first date and already thought, “They’re the one, I love them, when are the babies coming?” 🤣

Hold up-too soon! Slow down and remind yourself, “I don’t even know this person yet, let’s take it step by step.”

Relax, enjoy the moment, and don’t rush into assumptions of thinking you know them because you don’t yet.

When you’re calm and present you’ll be able to notice red flags (or green ones!)) and decide from there.

Take the pressure off, and just enjoy getting to know each other 💫🌟🌟

11/10/2024

Being single has its perks, but let’s be real-it can also come with challenges.

To help you boost your confidence and attract the healthy relationship you deserve, I’ve got a deal you won’t want to miss!

Get 50% off coaching when you sign up by November 11 at 11:59 pm CST.

I’m offering this to the first 50 singles who are ready to ditch the unsexy habits holding them back and land a fulfilling, committed relationship.

Don’t wait-spots are limited. Let’s make this your time to shine.

11/09/2024

Elections can be a stressful time for many people. This election I voted for Kamala. I wanted someone who more aligns with my morals, values, and respects women.

But… I have friends who voted for Trump and I love them too ❤️ 💗

Sometimes in life we do not get our way. God has a bigger plan that we may not even be aware of.

For those of you that did not vote for Trump, read my article (in the bio) on how to cope with election when you don’t get your way.

These strategies are ones that I use and can be effective with relationship as well. You won’t always get your way in relationships too and it’s important to remember that ❤️ 💕

11/06/2024

Hey beautiful people,

Would you like some tea? I am sponsoring tea time on Tuesday, November 12 at 9-10 am in Houston, TX. ❤️

I will be in the Rice Village area talking about my journey and biz as the “unsexy” relationship coach.

You can ask me questions on dating, relationships, or any struggles you are facing. More importantly I want to meet you and get to know you.

Here is the link to register:

Join us at The Village Suites for Tea Time, where we'll sip tea and hear from small business speakers!

10/10/2024

What quiz name resonates for you the most so much that you would be curious and would take it?

Take poll below:
1. Healthy relationship quiz
2. Relationship Quiz
3. Attachment Style Quiz
4. Red Flags Alert Quiz

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10/02/2024

People ask me what are your top 3 questions you ask on the first date?

The goal is to know the person just enough to decide if you want to have another date.

Its important to ask the questions in your authentic way.

Make sure you cover the 3 categories:
1. passion, interest, and hobbies to understand how they spend their time
2. values to make sure there is alignment
3. relationship goals to make sure there is alignment

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10/01/2024

It took me 6 years to really understand what it means to transform and I only knew once I did the work.

When my fiance and I broke up in 2014, I was in so much pain. I was ready to end my life. Through God’s guidance I stayed a little longer to see what this spiritual awakening is all about.

I chose to do the work. I was in enough pain and I did not want to end up in a similar relationship.

All I know is when you no longer react to what someone says or does, but can see things as objectively as they are, you know you have done the work.

Assumptions come from our past experiences, curiosity embraces new experiences. Only through curiosity and a new set of eyes and ears can you truly have healthy relationships ❤️

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10/01/2024

Good morning beautiful people.

It took me 6 years to really understand what it means to transform.

When you no longer react but can see things as obejctively as they are, you know you have done the work. Then you can truly have healthy relationships ❤️

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09/30/2024

What do all 4 of these celebrities have in common?

1. They left us too soon
2. They had low self-esteem
3. They had low sense of self, not knowing who they are outside of the fame
4. They had eating disorders and other addictions
5. They were codependent and had unhealthy romantic relationships

The next time you compare yourself to anyone, remember that you only see their outsides and not whats really going on the inside.

Chasing power, success, money does not bring happiness and we often do those things out of fear and need for validation from others. Healing your attachment wounds and getting to the source of why your relationships struggle does. 💥

When you transform you’re happier, your relationships are thriving, and you live with purpose. 💕

09/26/2024

Hey beautiful people,

This is a question I have to check for myself because committing is about how we show up and is about integrity.

I missed two commitments this year and I apologied for rescheduling them.

Sometimes we need to admit to ourselves that we are doing too much and need to re-prioritize.

If integrity is your value than practice it.

This is as much of a reminder for myself so lets work on keeping commitments. If you can't, that is okay but don't make it a pattern ❤️

09/25/2024