11/27/2025
Money changes the energy in a relationship — especially when one partner earns more.
But the real problem isn’t income… it’s how we interpret it.
When a woman out-earns a man, she may shift into masculine energy:
hyper-independent, protective, carrying everything on her shoulders.
And the relationship starts feeling like “me vs. you” instead of “we.”
But interdependence changes everything.
Instead of asking,
“Who makes more?”
ask:
“What does my partner do that allows me to live this life?”
Maybe he watches the kids so you can travel for conferences.
Maybe he holds down the home so you can build your career.
Maybe he sacrifices in ways you don’t always see.
You’re not doing this alone.
You’re able to rise because of what your partner contributes — and he rises because of you.
Two people.
Two roles.
Two energies.
One team.
Shift from “I” to “we,” and the entire relationship evolves.
